We all have heard about doormat boyfriends.As matured men now in our 30s and 40s we would have observed during our college days how some boys would go around doing simping for the girls they liked. They would take them on dates, movies, recharge their mobile phones, xerox their notes and do all other sundry jobs that the girls wanted. But these men remained friends only friends, nothing happened beyond that. Majority of these men felt used after some point of time. They were nothing other than doormat boyfriends aka beta simps.
Some years later this trend is repeated again.Many of these men are now accomplished on their professional front and it is time for them to get married.As usual the search for a suitable bride starts and the search is narrowed down to that one special person who is fair and good looking.Marriage is solemnized and a new chapter begins.
A few years later this man has become a classical case of a doormat husband.He is nothing more than a 24/7 ATM, protector and provider. He is supposed to take care of his wife and kids, pay all the bills and facilitate a luxurious lifestyle for the wife and kids, pay the EMI's, car loans, home loans and school fees, sponsor the annual vacations and also take care of all the in-laws.
Now what does this man get in return. Nothing!!! Other than those lovely initial months of intimacy after marriage there is nothing. Some men are now denied intimacy. The wife has now gone to the gym and become a yummy mummy. As she is getting a lot of attention from other men she now now no longer values her husband, some of them are even having affairs with other men while having their luxurious lifestyle being taken care of by the husband. Just like how they boyfriend used to do all the sundry jobs for his crush now it is the husband sponsoring the luxurious lifestyle of his wife but does not get anything in return. He has no value, no respect and no honour. This is a reality that our society does not discuss but its exists. The problem is such husbands do not want to accept that they are doormat husbands.
Bhaveen Sheth
INDIAN MGTOW
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