What happens when Indian men stop playing the role of a protector and provider-Bhaveen Sheth-Indian MGTOW

In India every Indian man is mandated to play the role of a protector and provider, majority being brainwashed from childhood on how they are to become good sons and caring husbands. The path is clear : Be a good and obedient boy, get good grades in school, get admission into a good college and taken up medicine, engineering or management, get a good job in an MNC and get married to the girl of your parents choice.

The Indian man is expected to be a provider and protector. He can't escape the same. Now what happens when some Indian men refuse to do the same? What happens when men decide to stay single or live a MGTOW Lifestyle?

In my experience the society goes all out in humiliating and lambasting such men. Speaking from my  personal experience, I have seen how the society labels such men including myself as losers and failures. We are often criticized for not getting married and having children, that we are not taking our responsibilities seriously? Indian society cannot tolerate men who want to live for themselves.

Now I would like to ask "When did remaining single and living for yourself become a crime"? "And why is the society inconsiderate to single Indian men?" The answer lies in the fact that when a man refuses to undertake mandated slavery  that comes in the form of marriage, being a husband and being a parent is just not acceptable to the society. Especially when majority of the folks are happily willing to undertake slavery.

Breaking the shackles and going against the tide was never easy. Men who live for themselves will always be criticized and be looked down upon. No one wants to see a happy single man , especially in India. A single Indian man eventually if he wants can have a wonderful life. He has no major responsibilities, he is not under the burden of EMI's or home loans. He does not  have to spend on children's education.More important he is at peace. Mental peace is something a lot of Indian men crave for considering the drama and tantrums throw by the wives. This is the reason why our Indian society cannot accept the concept of a happy single Indian man who willingly does not want to get married.

At 39, being single and living a MGTOW lifestyle, I am more than happy. Never succumb to the pressure of getting married.Life your life and be happy.

BHAVEEN SHETH

The Selfish Indian man who wants to leave his biological imprint in this world: Bhaveen Sheth-Indian MGTOW

Living as a single Indian man now in my late 30's, I often counsel single Indian men in their 20's and early 30's on the need to remain single and follow the MGTOW Lifestyle. Though I put up my points on the benefits of remaining single, these young Indian men are not convinced. They all say one common thing "What about my progeny?", "Vansh ka kyaa hoga?" "What about my legacy?" . I guess the normal Indian man is an egoist when it comes to his own legacy. He is more interested in leaving his biological imprint in this world rather improving his own lifestyle or his economic condition. This is a major reason why Indian men willing submit to lifetime of slavery in the name of marriage and fatherhood.

In India, every other Indian man is selfish. He wants to follow the herd mentality just like others. And he too wants to leave his own biological imprint. He in not concerned on what kind of future he will be able to give his child. He is not bothered whether he will be able to afford the required lifestyle for his child.Many of such men are not even well settled in their careers. Their own lives are messed up. At young age they have restricted their own growth and yet these men want to get married and start a family.

The truth is they just want to extend their own identity through their children. They want to join the league of the majority by bringing a child in this world. That is all. They don't want to improve their own lives or enhance their skills. They don't want to rise up in the financial or social ladder. How can you think of bringing a child in this world when you are just able not able to basic needs? I guess this is a question no Indian man asks himself. 

With maturity and experience that I have gained and a gradual realization, I no longer counsel such dumb men. Let their own bitter experiences make them realize the mistakes that they have made. Nothing hurts more when you are not able to meet or fulfill the demands of your family. And more agonizing and distressing is when your own child criticizes  you for being a useless father or a dead beat bad. 

In India, Men only learn lessons from bitter experiences.

Bhaveen Sheth

Indian MGTOW