BHAVEEN SHETH-DOTSIM-The New Year Begins

Dear Single Indian Males,

A small change in my blog heading title, it is DOTSIM and the abbreviation stands for Diary of the Single Indian Male.

A very Happy New Year to all you mates. Happy 2013, hope the new year brings good luck to all of us and hope that many single guys get hitched this year. Of course that does not mean that i will get hitched.

This year brings a lot of changes in my life. Post 30, one always feels that with every passing year, time is going by so one should better start planning for the future.

So what should the single Indian Male who is post 30 plan for???? Plenty,  but please prioritize. You just don't want to end up with empty plans and nothing to implement.

So what do I prioritize for myself this year???

Bhaveen Sheth-Diary of the SIngle Indian Male-A Writeup on Single People of India

My Dear Single Indian Males,

I cam across an interesting post which throws light on the Pleasures and Perils of living single in India. It is an interesting read and i thought i would share with you.

http://www.firstpost.com/living/perils-and-pleasures-of-living-alone-in-india-266169.html

Regards,

Bhaveen Sheth

Bhaveen Sheth-Diary of the Single Indian Male- Search yourself in your Solitude

My Dear Single Indian Males,

Today i would like to discuss on the topic on knowing yourself. How many of us really know who we really are??? The answer is that only few of us know it.

We have been bought up in a close knit family and community and we become men based on the feedback and perception of our near and dear ones. Very few of us get the opportunity to explore the the world outside our homes and communities. Hence we never our selves that well.

The moment an average Indian male reaches a suitable age, a bride hunt starts and he soon gets married, whether he likes it or not. After this starts a new chapter of marriage where the the man has to take up responsibilities and play the tole of a husband, son and father. All this without truly knowing theyself.

In all my years of traveling around India, i have come across such frustrated Men who are living a life without any goals, men who are just counting days, men who have lost it but are just continue to live because they have the burden of responsibilities.

And so my single male friends, cherish your solitude, maybe god has kept us single so that we can discover our selves, maybe we can realize what we really  want in life, our passions and interests are ignited, the freedom to pursue the activities we want.

It is this solitude that will make you realize who you really are and what we really want. So go ahead and take some time so that you can be at peace with your self and you will realize who you really are and what you really want.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signig off for the day , will be back with a lot more later.

Regards,

Bhaveen Sheth

Bhaveen Sheth-Diary of the Single Indian Male-Spare your Parents of the Humiliation

My Dear Single Indian  Men,

Today I would like to discuss on the Topic of sparing your parents from Humiliation.

Many a Times we read articles or blog posts of the parents of an Indian Girl who openly tell about the humiliating experiences that they have to face when they want to get their divorced, widowed or over aged daughter  married, not to mention the girl who does not fit into the ideal requirement of being the typical Indian Bride ( fair, good looking, dumb, respects elders slim and all the other bullshit crap).