We are living in times of leftist liberal feminazi cancel culture combined with a snow flake generation that is equally hyper sensitive even to listen to another person's point of view.
The topic of a homemaker always leads to heated arguments. The leftist liberals are always in arms if a man says that he wants his future spouse to be a home maker. I mean don't we have a thriving democracy in our country where freedom of expression and choice of lifestyle in the the basic fundamental right of each and every individual? Expectation of what a future spouse should be an individual choice.
Our so called leftist liberals have run a false narrative for the last 20 years stating that house work is slavery, unpaid labour that never gets compensated and exploitation of women. They want all women to abandon housework and go to work in offices.
Now I am all for women's empowerment and believe in equality but not all women have equal opportunities in terms of education and career opportunities, not all women are blessed with a high level of intellect or motor skills that allows them to compete equally in today's workforce. Some women just manage to complete graduation and some undertake post graduation, however many of them end up with entry level positions in the job market. Again nothing wrong with that.
But then are there jobs where career growth and progression is guaranteed? Do these jobs give satisfaction? This is a question that is difficult to answer. Thirty years ago young girls were sent to undertake home science classes so that it would prepare them to become good home makers and again it was not regressive. We were a closed economy with a socialist culture. Jobs were not easy to come and the men used to work and women used to take care of the home and children.
Things changed, in 1991 our economy opened up and many jobs were created. Along with this a leftist liberal narrative was put through in print media and Television on Indian women being forcibly put at homes after marriage and being asked to give up their careers.Let me tell you this was a false propaganda. Time and again the Indian society has supported its women in terms of their career choice. Many women have chosen to work after getting married and husbands and in-laws have permitted it.
Now let us come to the main topic. What is wrong if a man who earns a good salary expects his future spouse to be a home maker? What is wrong if he expects his wife to cook for him and look after his home and children? Is it a crime? Why then is he labeled as a male chauvinistic pig and called regressive? I am sure an Indian man is not looking for that B-School IIM pass out who is working hard in the corporate world and wants to climb the ladder as soon as possible, he is not looking for a scientist working in ISRO or DRDO. He is just looking for a simple women who is a graduate or post graduate. He is looking for a homely women. Now is he is earning more that Rs 50,000 , why does he need to have a wife who will work? I mean, if she is also earning Rs 40,000, maybe it is contributing to the household expenses, but, is she is earning just Rs 15 K to Rs 20 K, what is the point of doing a job? I mean just look, she will be spending a good amount of money in just travelling considering the rising fuel prices. With rising competition, today's workplaces are filled with targets and goals, life is stressful and again you cannot leave your workplace at 5 pm, you have to stretch beyond office hours. Is it worth?
A homemaker is a blessing to the family. She can take good care of her children, in-laws and the house. I myself have come across many such home makers who may be just HSC pass or graduates but are street smart. They are extremely skillful in managing homes, they can negotiate prices with the vegetable seller, find the best home equipments from local markets and cook delicious meals. The Covid pandemic and lockdown clearly showed how important home making skills were, many of these educated working women who used to look down upon home makers found it difficult to manage their kitchens without their maids and cooks. This is the importance of a homemaker.
So then why do people get offended when someone expects his future wife to be a home maker? It is his choice. Is he expecting his female colleague to give up her job and become a homemaker? NO!!! Then why do people get offended? The answer lies in the glorification of a false narrative and brainwashing two generations. The so called journalists of NDTV and their counter parts run debates and talk shows on prime time showing how regressive the concept of a home maker/housewife is. Believe me these journalists(being women) don't even know how to make a simple meal at their homes and are fully dependent on their maids. All they know is just to talk and shriek in English. They are after all the Macaulay Putris who behave like those anglicized mems of the British Raj. With their false propaganda they brainwash an entire generation.
Let me share an example with you. When it comes to buying a car, the majority in India prefer a car that falls into their budget. People prefer a Maruti Alto , Hyundai Santro, Renault Kwid or Tata Tiago. All these models fall into the budget of middle class or upper class. Now will brands like BMW, Mercedes, Audi or Ford get offended and try to shut down the car brands that cater to the needs of the middle class?No they won't. Because they know their market segment and their customers. So why do these so called feminists get offended?
The answer is because they know that contrary to what they think, men don't want to marry them because of their strong feminist ideology. When men go for lesser educated women who are willing to take care of the home, these women become angry, because somewhere they realize that they cannot mange their own homes without the help and support of their maids and cooks. If these women are married, their husbands are beta male simps who don't mind washing up the dishes, so these women feel that all husbands should also behave like beta male simps. Many of these women are either unmarried of separated. Even if matrimonial alliances come their way, the expectation is that of a home maker and for some reason they get rejected. Now they feel that every other women should not be a home maker.
I clearly remember a few years back, Ms. Mira Rajput, the wife of actor Shahid Kapoor had made the following statement:
The new wave of feminism is aggressive and destructive. There is a term called 'feminazi' which is now becoming the female equivalent of a male chauvinist."
"I am a housewife and wear that label with pride," Mira Rajput added, "Why can't you be an accomplished homemaker? Accomplishing could mean anything one has their heart set on. I had a tough pregnancy, bringing Misha (seven-month-old daughter) into this world. Now, I love being at home and spending time with my child. I don't want to spend an hour with her and then rush to work. It's not that I am not a woman of today. You don't have to compromise on traditions and ideals to be modern."
Now this statement triggered the feminazi brigade to such an extent that they went online trolling and bashing Ms.Mira Rajput. They didn't even spare a woman. This is their level of toxicity.
Child care is important. And if a man wants his spouse to be a home maker, he has every right to it. His thought process should not be questioned. What is the point of doing a job that pays you Rs 15-20 K in a metro city? What is the point of having an education when one does not have any career progression or growth path? The life in today's organizations is filled with stress and tension. Is it worth it? While the leftist liberals don't want women to be home makers, many surveys have repeatedly stated that women are more happy being at homes and taking care of their families.
Any man reading this post should not be ashamed if he wants his future spouse to be a home maker.
I rest my case.
