The Indian Society brainwashes its men into becoming Beta Males aka Simps- Bhaveen Sheth – DOTSIM - INDIAN MGTOW

In many aspects the Indian Society is a wonderful  Institution. It teaches peace tolerance, co-existence, live and let live philosophy. Most of the time the family is a strong backbone to support and nurture an individual.

However with all its positive aspects there are certain negative aspects of the Indian Society. The most harmful of those are to covert its men into beta males/simps/female suckers.

Most of the Indian men hardly grow up, mentally, emotionally or spiritually. Burdened with expectations from the time they are born, they are force to fulfill the dreams expectations of their parents. Their formative years go in studying, preparing for entrance and competitive exams graduation, post graduation and seeking jobs in good organizations. Hobbies, sports and extra-cirricular activities do not get any attention. The Indian man does not develop completely.

The Indian society brainwashes its men into false ideology of being a provider and protector. Since childhood his behaviour is molded to suit the needs of the society. The other ideology taught to men is that they need the support of a woman /soul mate/life partner. Other tham a decent job with a good salary having that dream girl as your wife becomes an ultimate goal of your life.

This is where the men bow down and try to change/modify their behaviours to suit the needs of a woman. This is where the Indian man’s self respect takes a hit and self esteem is based upon the validation of a woman. And what validation? You behave to suit the needs of a woman!!! You have to fulfill her needs and expectations!!! This is what a majority of the marriages in India are all about.

Bollywood is another source that falsely glorifies and over hypes love, romance and marriage and so do marriage functions. Every other Indian man thinks that marriage and a wife is the ultimate source of happiness.

The Indian man is hardly left on his own, to think for himself, to realize what he wants. Few men are able to introspect what they really want. Few men travel solo to realize their own hidden potential and what they can really achieve. Individualism is not encouraged by our society.

This is how the Indian society converts its men into beta males and simps. In India, majority of the married Indian men have become second class citizens and unknowingly they have accepted this position.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

On Psychological Freedom-Bhaveen Sheth-Indian MGTOW

Taking wisdom from the writings of OSHO, the Indian MGTOW would like to talk on Psychological Freedom.

Speaking of Indian men,majority do not have psychological freedom.They are bound by the rules of the society and have to follow them. The rules are very clear: get an education, get a job, get married, have children, take care of them and go on with your family life.The Indian society is all about authoritarianism and Indian men are under psychological slavery.

How many Indian men are independently think for themselves? How many are willing to live alone and explore themselves? Few!!!

Psychological slavery is like a prison, it indoctrinates you with the thought that happiness will come in your life if your follow the rules of the society and should you tread your own path, you will suffer.This my friend is psychological slavery. Why should every man in India go through the same experience?

How about taking a sabbatical after your education? How about pursuing something that you really like? How about not getting married and remaining single?

Indian society does not tolerate individualism. A man with his own independent thinking is a threat to the society because it will lose its authority.

A psychologically free Indian man will hurt the businesses of many people. The online matrimonial sites, marriage contractors, hospitals, schools, shopping malls, gift shops etc will be affected. Banks will loose another home loan/EMI slave.Gold diggers will lose another eligible India bachelor.

A psychologically free man is an object of envy because he no longer cares for the rules of the society.He peacefully follows his own path. The tribe of married Indian man resents and envies him for the freedom he enjoys.

Every man deserves psychological freedom.The Indian government has ensured this right since our country became independent.However the Indian society has taken away this right.The Indian man can chose and tread his own path and should he do, the Indian society will criticize him. An Indian man is really free when he stops following the dubious standards of the Indian society, he is free when he stops meeting the expectations of others and lives for himself.

Psychological freedom bring immense responsibility and promotes independent thinking eventually leading to individual growth and development.Let the message be loud and clear. This is what MGTOW lifestyle is all about: Psychological Freedom.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Indian MGTOW

A brief history on the MGTOW movement in Indian-Bhaveen Sheth-Indian MGTOW-DOTSIM

MGTOW stands for Men Going Their Own Way!!This is a movement that started way back in the 70's where strong self sufficient men in the West started rejecting the concept of marriage and eventually began living life on their own terms.

No one ever thought that this movement would make its way into India. India has a strong society where family serves as a protective roof for an individual.With the advent of feminism in India in the 80's, institutions like family, marriage and extended social relations started getting affected. In 1983 there was an amendment in the dowry act, criminalizing dowry which invoked a draconian section known as 498 A Dowry act.More amendments followed. In 2005, the Domestic Violence act was invoked followed by amendments in many other laws that were anti-male and ant-marriage. These laws made it very clear that should the marriage fail, the man and his family were to lose everything: money, reputation and property.

The early decade of 90's witnessed economic liberalization and end of the license raj, bureaucracy and redtapism. A free market started and many industrial sectors opened up to foreign investments. Cable TV and satellite television made its way into our living rooms and so did western culture. With Ekta Kappors's family drama soaps occupying  prime time on all popular channels we got to witness the rise in the toxicity and paranoia amongst the young Indian girls especially from small cities and towns.

Economic liberalization brought new opportunities in India and jobs paid higher salaries. Men started earning good packages reaping the benefits of a growing economy. IT and IT enabled services picked up in India generating jobs offering good salaries. Similarly, MBA's with college placements offering unheard packages become the talk of the town.

Women became equally empowered by obtaining a decent educations and joining the work force. Unfortunately by the late 90's the institution of marriage was commercialized. The girl and her parents started looking for benefits in the marriage. Who earned a better salary?Which man had a green card?Who had got an onsite posting? Who owned a house of his own? Men started being looked upon as commodities. No one was interested in behaviour, character and integrity. Morals did not mater in the face of materialism.

By the dawn of the 21st century, the Indian man had become a commodity in the marriage market. His education, job, monthly salary, bank balance and property etc defined his marital prospects. Simultaneously third wave feminism hit India. Indian women became more demanding. An over pampered generation of women were looking for benefits and luxuries from marriage. When their marriages did not work out, they went the courts and a new trend emerged where in women started filling all kinds of false cases like 498 A, DV, mental harassment etc against the husbands and the in-laws.Innocent men became the victims of a gender biased and prejudiced legal system.

In early 2000's the men's rights movement started. It was a stand taken against the false cases filled by a women and their  families against the husbands. Internet followed by social media brought an awareness on this issue.

In the early 10's, the MGTOW movement finally arrived in India. Wise Indian men decided to take the red pill and go the MGTOW way. By this time the institution of marriage had become dysfunctional.Men had seen what damage  failed marriages had brought upon other men.You tube channels started spreading awareness on the MGTOW movement. Matrimonial websites exposed the underbelly of greed and materialism of the women and their parents.Such stories of greed and gold diggers were shared on Qoura, a popular story sharing site.

By 2019, the time when I am writing this post, the MGTOW movement is active across Indian with new followers joining it each day.

Just forget marriage, MGTOW men have nothing to do with women. The METOO movement has become another example of toxic feminzasim.

This is how the MGTOW movement started and gain popularity in India and as a veteran MGTOW, I just thought of writing a brief history.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and will be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

INDIAN MGTOW

The INDIAN MGTOW turns 37-Bhaveen Sheth-DTOSIM

This month on 13th of May , the Indian MGTOW turned 37. On my birthday I look back every year and think on the knowledge, skills and wisdom that I have gained in the years gone by.

I did celebrate my 37th birthday by taking 2 days off.  In 2016 and 2017, I had gone to Goa and Gokarna to celebrate my birthday. However for the last 2 years I have chosen to stay at home and spend some quality time in solitude.

Every Indian MGTOW has the right to celebrate his birthday. Being alone does not mean we forget important events related to our lives. We need to take out time and enjoy.

I have come to realize that MGTOW lifestyle is wonderful and am happy to have made a decision to go MGTOW. At 37 , I am far more happy than the married Indian men whom I come across. There are no financial responsibilities and no stress related to spouse and children.

MGTOW lifestyle has its own advantages and plus points that our Indian society will never understand. Of course I am labelled as a selfish, self serving and self occupied person. I often get criticized by these so called happily married men for enjoying life all by myself. I don't care. I never take the opinion of married Indian men seriously. In today's times marriage is nothing but a sham, a fake show put up by people to comply by the rules of the society. We all know that marriage for all its positive points has become dysfunctional. But then fools cannot understand logic and I am not here to give an explanation.

There is a wonderful phrase, Every man for himself. To each one his own. This is what I believe in. Focus on yourself .

Many of my fellow INDIAN MGTOW's will be under pressure from their families as they are still not married. Hey Guys!!! Just chill. You have a perfect life. be happy. And if you want an inspiration, just look at me, 37 and still not married, living a MGTOW life. I have no regrets on the decision I took.

At 37 I still have dreams and ambitions. I dream of becoming a biker and travelling across India on a wonderful motorcycle.

Here I am at 37 wishing all my fellow single Indian men and MGTOWs all the very best. Follow your dreams and live your life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

The Single Indian Man AKA Indian MGTOW buys his first Car-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The Single Indian Man would like to share with his fellow single Indian men and MGTOW friends that he has finally bought himself a car. Yes!!! This is my first car bought at the age of 36. I went for TATA NANO Advance version car 2017 model with power steering and power windows. No Car loan taken and no EMI's to be paid. This is an achievement for me. Please find the pictures below:

I am sharing this to inspire my fellow Indian Men who have decided to live a MGTOW lifestyle. There are wonderful benefits in living for yourself and going your own way.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

When I don't feel sorry for myself then why do you feel sorry for me?

Speaking as a first person the single Indian man would like to address all those people who feel sorry for him due to his condition.

You see me as an individual, as a single man who is still not married, you come to know that I am an adult orphans and don't have anyone.Suddenly you are overwhelmed with emotions of sympathy and you start feeling sorry for me.Why?Do I look like someone who wants sympathy?

I am living life on my own terms and happy with my current status quo. I don't pity myself  then why do you?

Being single is not a disease.Some are programmed to live alone.Over the course of the years I have become comfortable with my single status and don't feel the need to get married.

You are married and have a family, I wish you all the best and I hope that you focus on your life.I will find a way to take care of myself so please don't show any concern for me.

I live in the present and am very optimistic about my future.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

The Death of a Single lonely Indian Man-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The single Indian man would like to write about an event he witnessed two years ago on the death of  a single lonely Indian man in the same building that he resides in.

I had seen this man, he was in his early 50's,single, lonely and battling mid life crisis.Like all people who come from small towns to big cities seeking better employment opportunities, he too belonged to the same category. From what I came to know about him, he was a teaching faculty in one of those coaching classes for MBA CAT and MAT.

He seemed to be aloof.He was unmarried,kept up to himself hardly interacting  with people.There were a few times when I saw him speaking with the building caretaker. He seemed to be overtly expressive, talking a lot. It seemed that he had no one to talk to.A classic syndrome of prolonged loneliness.When you get an opportunity to talk , you keep talking non stop.

In his physical appearance he seemed to have aged 10 -15 years more that his current age.He looked shabby and did not care much about his appearance.His clothes were loose, he hardly shaved and looked more like a hippy.I guess he had stopped taking care of himself.

Loneliness did not kill him. It were the vices associated with loneliness that did..His drinking habit took away his life.I guess he used to consume alcohol on  daily basis beyond the permissible limits (as per medical sciences). He looked wasted. I guess alcohol had already taken a huge toll on his health. Till date I do not why did he find his solace in alcohol. What was it? A broken marriage, betrayal in love, a dysfunctional family or a difficult childhood.Some people take their secrets to their graveyards without sharing with anyone.

No one knows when this lonely man died. He did not come out of his room for three days.A foul smell started coming from his room.His door was forced open and he was found lying lifeless like a wasted cadaver.The police was promptly informed. His sister and brother in law were called and all formalities related to his death were processed.There was no mourning, there was no funeral.Considering the difficulty in taking the dead body to his home town, his last rites were done in a nearby place.

This is how the life of a single lonely man came to an end.It is true that all of us are going to die one day but no one deserves a death like this. No one deserves to die like a street mongrel or a sewer rodent.Such kind of a death is humiliating to the human soul.

We as Single Indian men must learn from this. We should never fall for evil vices.Be it alcohol or anything.Never neglect your health and well being. Go outside and connect with people.Develop creative hobbies and start engaging in them.Work hard to create a meaningful life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.