Sunday, June 13, 2021

MGTOW Lifestyle and freedom from obligations, expectations and burdens of the Indian Society-Bhaveen Sheth-Indian MGTOW

By the time you reach your late 30's, you realize that you have made the right decision by taking up and following the MGTOW Lifestyle. Many people have criticized me for running away from basic responsibilities. When I ask what were the the responsibilities and I get a reply of not getting married or having a family of my own. I have stopped caring nowadays.

You see, in India , if you are a man you are always expected to meet certain expectations, fulfill obligations and have many burdens dumped upon you for no reason. All this is okay till you finish your college and start earning but then why does society push us further? Why are we forced into getting married?

Now I am no expert to answer this question. To each one his own and I am better off minding my own business. Marriage in India puts lots of responsibilities on men. Unlike the West, you don't marry an individual, you marry the entire family and hence you become a part of a larger society. Two individuals can remain happy but to make 2 entire families happy is no easy task. 

Once you get married, your expenditure sky rockets, after having a child, a man faces major challenges. Healthcare and Education take a huge toll on one's income. Even after 70 years of independence, basic services like education and healthcare are in a pathetic state. This has lead to privatization of these services where even the lower middle class people are forced to avail the same. 

When you live in a society, you are expected to meet the so called standards set by it. Having a house, a car, attending social functions of the larger family and friends, giving out gifts, celebrating birthdays and anniversaries, dinning out a expensive restaurants on weekends, vacations in India and abroad and rest of the things.

At 39, I am so happy of not being a part of this so called circus. I don't have to spend money on worthless things just to meet someones expectations.

This my friends are the real benefits of following a MGTOW lifestyle in India. So if you have chosen the path of MGTOW but are not sure about it,believe me, this is are the true words of a 39 year old veteran MGTOW. Go ahead and live your life, away from the burdens and expectations of the Indian society.