In many aspects the Indian
Society is a wonderful Institution. It teaches peace
tolerance, co-existence, live and let live philosophy. Most of the time the
family is a strong backbone to support and nurture an individual.
However with all its positive
aspects there are certain negative aspects of the Indian Society. The most
harmful of those are to covert its men into beta males/simps/female suckers.
Most of the Indian men hardly
grow up, mentally, emotionally or spiritually. Burdened with expectations from
the time they are born, they are force to fulfill the dreams expectations of
their parents. Their formative years go in studying, preparing for entrance and
competitive exams graduation, post graduation and seeking jobs in good
organizations. Hobbies, sports and extra-cirricular activities do not get any
attention. The Indian man does not develop completely.
The Indian society brainwashes
its men into false ideology of being a provider and protector. Since childhood
his behaviour is molded to suit the needs of the society. The other ideology
taught to men is that they need the support of a woman /soul mate/life partner.
Other tham a decent job with a good salary having that dream girl as your wife
becomes an ultimate goal of your life.
This is where the men bow down
and try to change/modify their behaviours to suit the needs of a woman. This is
where the Indian man’s self respect takes a hit and self esteem is based upon
the validation of a woman. And what validation? You behave to suit the needs of
a woman!!! You have to fulfill her needs and expectations!!! This is what a
majority of the marriages in India are all about.
Bollywood is another source that
falsely glorifies and over hypes love, romance and marriage and so do marriage
functions. Every other Indian man thinks that marriage and a wife is the
ultimate source of happiness.
The Indian man is hardly left on
his own, to think for himself, to realize what he wants. Few men are able to introspect what they really want. Few men travel solo to realize their own
hidden potential and what they can really achieve. Individualism is not
encouraged by our society.
This is how the Indian society
converts its men into beta males and simps. In India, majority of the married
Indian men have become second class citizens and unknowingly they have accepted
this position.
This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off
for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.
Bhaveen Sheth
