Living as a single Indian man now in my late 30's, I often counsel single Indian men in their 20's and early 30's on the need to remain single and follow the MGTOW Lifestyle. Though I put up my points on the benefits of remaining single, these young Indian men are not convinced. They all say one common thing "What about my progeny?", "Vansh ka kyaa hoga?" "What about my legacy?" . I guess the normal Indian man is an egoist when it comes to his own legacy. He is more interested in leaving his biological imprint in this world rather improving his own lifestyle or his economic condition. This is a major reason why Indian men willing submit to lifetime of slavery in the name of marriage and fatherhood.
In India, every other Indian man is selfish. He wants to follow the herd mentality just like others. And he too wants to leave his own biological imprint. He in not concerned on what kind of future he will be able to give his child. He is not bothered whether he will be able to afford the required lifestyle for his child.Many of such men are not even well settled in their careers. Their own lives are messed up. At young age they have restricted their own growth and yet these men want to get married and start a family.
The truth is they just want to extend their own identity through their children. They want to join the league of the majority by bringing a child in this world. That is all. They don't want to improve their own lives or enhance their skills. They don't want to rise up in the financial or social ladder. How can you think of bringing a child in this world when you are just able not able to basic needs? I guess this is a question no Indian man asks himself.
With maturity and experience that I have gained and a gradual realization, I no longer counsel such dumb men. Let their own bitter experiences make them realize the mistakes that they have made. Nothing hurts more when you are not able to meet or fulfill the demands of your family. And more agonizing and distressing is when your own child criticizes you for being a useless father or a dead beat bad.
In India, Men only learn lessons from bitter experiences.
Bhaveen Sheth
Indian MGTOW
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