Indian men who have been forced to give up on marriage

The single Indian man speaks on many Indian men who have been forced to give up on their dreams of getting married and remain single and celibate for their entire lives.

Forced bachelorhood is now becoming a common thing amongst many single Indian men who are very well in their 30's and 40's. Unlike those single Indian men who have remain single out of choice, these men dream and seriously want to get married but are not able to find any suitable women for marriage.

Blame it on the skewed male female or high expectations of women, these men stand out to lose a lot.

A big percentage of these men belong to middle class and lower middle class families , some may belong to an upper middle class family but still they retain middle class values.

These men are average in their achievements and generally get by in life. They hold basic educational qualifications and have a junior or middle level jobs in organizations. Their salaries can have needs fulfilled but cannot but them luxuries.These men are not independent and stay with their parents.

Every matrimonial alliances they come across have high expectations in terms of salaries, designation, materialistic expectations which these men can't meet. Rejections and disappointments happen repeatedly. This trend continues even when they have crossed into their 30's.

I don't look down on these men. Not everyone is an IIT-IIM professional or a doctor or engineer. Some people are average and they do have the right to exist and make a living. However with the matrimonial markets filled with extremely high demands, expectations and groom comparisons, these men don't stand a chance. It is not that all women are out of their league, many women are of a similar class, unfortunately they want to get married on the next higher level of the financial pyramid. There are innumerable amount of these middle class Indian women who will prefer staying single rather than getting married to men of a similar class.

After constant rejections these men and their families give up on any hope of getting married and stoically accept a single life with a lot of disappointment and disgust. There will a generation of men who were born in their 70's, 80's and even 90's who will have to accept a single life with dejections and rejections.

This is a reality, since no one mentions about this in the mainstream media, I chose to do the same.There is nothing that I can do, however I will be writing two additional posts giving my advice to these single Indian men and their parents and how they need to move and accept this single life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and I promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH-INDIAN MGTOW

How these feminist statements have ruined the lives of tens and thousands of Indian women-BHAVEEN SHETH DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

Bhaveen Sheth the writer of this blog writes a post on one of the brainwashing techniques used by feminists and feminazis in India through affirmations and statements on single urban Indian women. These statements have had terrible consequences on the lives of tens and thousands of Indian women leaving them single into their 30's and 40's:

"Koi accha ladka to milna chaihye" (I should be able to find the right guy), I will settle down only when I find the right person, I am still to come across with my Mr.Perfect.  These are nothing but feminist statements made to India's women in order to force them to keep finding the right guy (who does not exist) and keep on rejecting every decent man they come across.

What has this lead to? Well, it has lead to tens and thousands of Indian women being single now in their 30's and 40's with limited chances of finding a soul mate. They are now branded as left over women who hardly have any takers. Telling the truth, Indian women are not strong enough to live a single independent life on their own, of course there are exceptions but then I would go with the law of the majority. On one side you are made to grow up with the fact that you will get married, have a loving husband, lovely children, a family and happy family life and on the other side you are not able to get married because of the thinking you have picked up from these feminist statements. This leads to women who have a conflict within themselves. This makes them very toxic.

I am not a misogynist or a patriarch but if I have to put the general opinion of the Indian society, I state that the single Indian woman has marital value till she is 30, after that she is  considered as an off the shelf product. Marital prospects decline after she crosses 30.Feminist statements make these women think that they are god's own creation and they are entitled to have the best man but in reality a majority of these women have their own fundamental flaws and shortcomings that they tend to overlook. In the process of rejecting men and marital prospects that come along, these women cross their marriageable ages. And now they are well into their 30's and 40's , living a single life filled with unhappiness, despair and gloom resigned to a life of loneliness. They fail to realize that if they had kept moderate expectations, things would have worked our and by now they would have been happily settled down.

This is the bitter truth about feminism and women's liberation. This has ruined the lives of tens and thousand of single Indian women living urban cities of India.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth-INDIAN MGTOW

Words of wisdom to all single Indian male IT Professionals from Qoura-BHAVEEN SHETH-INDIAN MGTOW

The single Indian male was browsing through some popular write-ups on quora.He cam across an interesting write up on advice to a single Indian male IT professionals on what they need to do in order to improve their personalities and become better human beings. Please find the tips written below:

Mostly for Male Software Engineers.

1. The girl who comes to your seat with twinkle in her eyes is not interested in you. She wants to get the fucking work done. And she will not date for your favour. She thinks you're a wussy. 
2. Most of you my friends including me have a rubbish and sloppy communication and weirdo accent. Get some training dude.
3. Your dressing sense sucks. Date a fashion designer if it is all possible for you. Date? Yes. Don't wear formal pants with sneakers or sports shoes. It's not cool.
4. Take care of personal hygiene. No wonder girls run away from you. Use some good perfume and make sure you eat mint after consuming tons of onion during lunch or after smoking.
5. Make sure your tummy doesn't entice me to say that you're pregnant without delivery(PWD). Take care of your health my friend. It's important.
6. Become interesting. Get a life outside GOT, LOTR, and many more. Read something about evolution. Read books by Matt Ridley, Robert Greene and Neil Strauss.
7. If you think the girl you discreetly look over your desktop doesn't notice you then I am telling you that she knows. She thinks you're a pervert. If you like her go and tell her. She thinks you lack balls to ask her out.
8. Those with 1% lucky smart genes and good built but bad accent and poor self image, if you think girls in India will drool over you because it happens in some deodorant advertisements, then arse off. It's India. No one will come to you and that's why that talkative, confident, ugly and smart ass friend of yours is sleeping with all the girls. You need to talk to her buddy to create some interest.
9. The Pizza you're eating during unsolicited late stays at your office is the biggest cause of your growing waistline. Cut the crap and carb. You're acting like a greedy pig here.
10. Cut down your time in front of idiot box and laptops and start going to gym for god sake. Learn some moves so that you don't embarrass yourself in the upcoming annual party dance. Your weird dance has already repelled so many girls from you. Specially the snake dance of yours.

I hope my readers especially the single Indian men from the IT sector will follow and implement the points mentioned above.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH