We are men, we are human and even if we are single, we have paternal feelings. As humans we yearn for for children. There are times when we feel if we had our own little children with whom we could play with and have fun. Unfortunately we don't have our children.
Narrating my own experience now that I have been a veteran single Indian man having led a solitary life, I love small children. There is something about them, their childishness, innocent smile, naughty laughter, little mischief and playful nature. Children are so pure, they are not affected by the toxicity of the outside world. Just 10 minutes of time spent with children and I forget all my problems. Currently I am very much attached to my niece, nephew and my best friend's son. I always look forward to spend some time with them and feel so happy about it. In public places, I come across small children and take an opportunity to put my hand over their heads in order to bless them.
I may not be a parent but love to be that friendly uncle to all children. I have this dream to mentor small children especially those who belong to the underprivileged section. Maybe their blessing and goodwill will go a long way in having a happy life.
Bhaveen Sheth
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Your writing style is beautiful, and your words are powerful. I am the ex-wife of someone from Kerala. I am American. In my culture, there is a certain level of importance on being married, but not as strong as you culture, I believe. Like you, I believe everyone needs to know they still have value and are still a complete person even in singlehood. Thank you for bearing your soul. I feel intensely encouraged by your writings.
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