Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts Part 16

I get on to a regular life and start adjusting day by day.

Getting back and starting afresh is not easy but I am happy , the break of some months was really good.

I come across some Ego maniacal People who will themselves not do  anything and wont allow others to do.They have just wasted years of their lives doing nothing and have never developed at all professionally, personally or spiritually.

Why is it that such Old Insecure people feel threatened by the Youngsters who are Hardworking, talented and brilliant?????

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts Part 15

I pen down these thoughts as I have turned 30

Am gradually getting back on my Cardiovascular Exercise Routine- Just Hope that I keep the continuity and consistency.

Closely watching the developments of the Gurgaon BMW Hit and run case. The accused Sunil Sherawat has surrendered and is released on bail. The most amusing thing was that he came to the court escorted by a group of bouncers. What is He, a VVIP??? Some people really make a mockery of justice.

I am closely following the developments of the Aarushi Murder Case; her parents will be presenting their case in three courts today in succession.

Egotist Air India Pilots have held the whole country to ransom.

Some days back I got a good feedback on the write-ups that i put on my blog, happy to see my work appreciated.

Day by day the fundamental freedom of  expression of free speech is being curbed, can’t understand why. Indian doesn’t have the ability to accept the reality and take a joke on themselves.

I finished reading the book “Brother against Brother” written by Scott Peterson. It shows all the course of events that took place in Somalia, Sudan and Rwanda and portrays the extreme side of Human nature. Some people turn so fanatic that they take their entire country on the path of doom and destruction.

“Work Life balance is a must” states renowned cricket commentator Harsha Bhogle. Who cares for that saying, tell it to those Indian Corporate Owners who think that they should squeeze work out of every employee for the money paid to them in the form of salaries.

TEAM WORK- Something that people in India find hard to learn and even hard to Implement. After all we Indians have been Individual Successes and collective failures.

Mere Amar, Mere Jagdish and Mer Anurag. These were the words that I heard from three dotting wives. They just could never stop ranting about their husbands. And there are more of such woman that I am going to come across.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day, will be back with some more.

Bhaveen Sheth

Bhaveen Sheth Some Random Thoughts Part-14

Day by Day I see Gradual Improvements in My Cardiovascular Endurance.

In the India a married man realizes the value of his wife only when he faces a major catastrophy.

I wish people had some gastrointestinal manners especially when it came to releasing gases from both their orifices (oral and anal).

I come across youngsters who want to earn more than One lakh rupees per month, even though they are just management trainees.It is Okay to be Ambitious but one needs to work hard and go places to fulfill those dreams. But there is where the problem starts, no one wants to wait, no one wants to put in efforts and no one wants to go to places. You can't get success delivered at Home just like Dominoes Pizza.

I see a new trend coming up. Potential Grooms are being rejected by girls. Sad and Humiliating it may be for the Guy, but it is true. Just Education, CTC and a Good family Background are no longer enough to find that Cinderella of your Life. The grooms who get rejected can't even tell people that they were rejected by a girl ( ego and other problems). But every rejection should make a person realize that what he should be looking for and what changes he ought to bring in his life and personality. And c'mon man there is no harm in telling people that you got rejected!!!!!!

Professional Slaves are Huge in number. They are the type of people who work in a sick organization for their entire life. Reasons can be a plenty, from being mediocre to having a dog like loyalty towards their master. The fact is that they can never get any decent job in another Organization.

I remember that I came a across a man who's wife used to punish him by denying him sex, sad it may be. Amir Khan has stated that the best way a wife could revolt against her Husband was to deny him sex. And yes it had an effect, the Frustrated Husband turned into nothing but a Horny Predator looking out for anything even an animal to fulfill his carnal desires.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day, will be back with more snippets.

Bhaveen Sheth

Bhaveen Sheth Some Random Thoughts Part-13

Why I do I read???? Well , I don't know what to say. Reading calms me down and exposes me to a different world where i can imagine a lot of things. And yes it strengthens my grip over the language. Words and Sentences, something i really love.

Why do I Jog/Run??? Nothing can bring so much pleasure and happiness than the Runners high that one feels after finishing the run.All negative energies vanish and one starts feeling energetic.

I closely watch the trial unfold for Nupur and her Husband Rajesh Talwar and feel sorry for them, looks like the society and the media is exacting some sort of revenge towards the socially upward mobile people.

An educated IPS officer endorses honor killing. What has the world come up-to????

Hats off to Amir Khan on his new show Satyamev Jayate, some effort has been taken by a Philanthropist to bring about changes in our Dysfunctional Society.

I get the feeling that i really need to sculpt my body and make it better, something that i intend to religiously, it may take years, but there is a lot of satisfaction in aging gracefully and looking good and not like the typical bot bellied average Indian Male.

I hope to watch some Movie Today.

Presently Reading a Book tilted " ME AGAINST MY BROTHER", it describes the real live events that took place in Somali, Sudan and Rwanda, heart wrenching to read and see the realities. More depressing is the fact that the world turned its face away a looked the other way when a catastrophe of such magnitude was taking place.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day, will be back with more .

Bhaveen Sheth

Bhaveen Sheth- Some Random Thoughts- Part 12

I watched two movies this Week, Jannat 2 and Safe, both back to back. Jannat 2 is good and one time watchable, Emran Hasmi plays his normal role and Esha Gupta is a Candy Floss Heroine adding to the Glamour Quotation of the Movie. But the Real performer is Rahdeep Hooda who portrays an intense personality of man brooding over his loss. The Second Movie was SAFE, an action thriller starring Jason Statham, you can expect all the Action and Fight Stunts from Statham plus there is a good effort put in by the Child Actor Catherine Chan.

I watch the news in anticipation of the Hearing of Nupur Talwar which will come up tomorrow, really feel sorry for that woman.

I am happy, someone posted a congratulatory note on one of the posts of my blogs, looks like my writings are getting appreciated day by day. I hope to improve on the same.

Day by day I dream of one day making it big in the Field of HR and Training and Development.

Just some days left for my birthday to come, this year I turn 30.

I gradually make plans to get distanced from some people, the more diplomatically it is done the better.

I hope to buy some good movie CD’s  I intend to buy and watch.

I see a man trapped in a wrong relationship where there is no exit.

Downloaded some good books, hope to read them later.

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts Part 11

Cardiovascular Exercises get me tired.

But , I am feeling the effects of this High Endurance exercise.Feel Super Fit and am loosing weight gradually.

Nupur Talwar's bail gets rejected, feel sad and sorry for her. Looks like the court drama will continue for a long time.

Another woman is gang raped in Ghaziabad, NCR. Delhi and NCR seems to be filled with all kinds of Sexual Monsters and Predators.

I come across some people who have problems adjusting with others, how narrow minded can the Human Mentality be.

A man who does not contact me for a year , suddenly pops up on chat and requires help. Only when work needs to be done you remember friends.

So many people in this country need psychiatric help. It is sad that a few go for the same. A lot of stigma is attached to taking such type of help.

People reach their mid 30's but still are immature when it comes to the matters of the heart. We the People of India are suckers when it comes to love and relationships. Pragmatism goes for a toss. Now wonder one comes across a lot of people suffering from relationship problems in India.

Professional Slavery- Once  you get used to it , you can never come out of it. One comes across professional slaves in real life, their leadership qualities are destroyed and they cannot work for any other organization other than that of their Old Master.

Irritating but true, a lot of people are not educated in toilet manners.

I come across a person, who is trapped in a wrong relationship, he cannot come out of it neither is he happy staying in it, but continues to live his life. We waste precious time in useless relationships only to be be exhausted emotionally when things come to an end.

Rejections Galore on Matrimonial Websites. After all, when did the people of the great Indian Society liked the truth and reality.

This Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the Day, will be back with more posts.

Bhaveen Sheth

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts-Part 10

I run under the Hot Sun and the Scorching Heat, it leaves me Dehydrated but then also i continue to go ahead. I need to achieve my targets.

I watch the news, the reports coming daily amazes me.

The trial of Nupur Talwar starts, the CBI is so jobless in our country, all it an do is pursue some old murder case but will never look into cases dealing with corruption and national security.

The Aarushi Murder case invokes my interest and it looks like a more of who dun nit novel story. I hope some enterprising writer can pen a good book on it. 

The BCCI Presidents Son punches a cop in Mumbai. Looks like Mumbai is heading the Delhi Way, every influential father's son thinks that he has the freedom to do whatever he wants.

Why are people who read books looked down upon. Some call us theorists and book worms, the rest call us bookish. We read to improve our communication skills and get a better understanding and perspective of the world. It is better than watching those useless cricket and IPL matches.

It is a sad thing that i come across people who will prefer to do slavery all their life in Middle Eastern Countries but will never return back to their Home Countries where they can live and work with respect and dignity.

Indian Society is all about class, class and more class.Real values don't matter.

As i approach 30 i get a feeling that is there something which i am missing???? have i not achieved something that i should have done before 30??? In retrospection i feel good, other than not getting married and having a family, i feel that i am on the right course.

Writing,of dear it really has the power to liberate the thoughts that you have in your mind.

Some more write ups for the day are pending and i will surely post them today.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day but promise to be back with more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts-Part 9

I watch 2 movies this Week, Vicky Donor and Hate Story, while the former is Hilarious the latter is a thriller.

The news is now all about Mrs Nupur Talwar. Her arrest and subsequent trial in the Aarushi Murder case, one name that has become so known in all the Households, thanks to the media spotlight on it.

Whether Ms Nupur is innocent or not is for the court to decide, but the treatment meted out to her is harsh.

The Book on the History of the City of Jerusalem is riveting and keeps my mind engrossed, am yet to complete it.

My aims on achieving Cardiovascular Endurance are on track, hope to become a Marathoner One Day.

I see one dysfunctional family going through crisis, one fellow can't even find a decent job.

Can't understand how can some people waste so much of Quality time just on watching worthless IPL Matches.

Religion is a personal thing but the saddest part is that some people try to show it off, drawing ire from others. If you want to listen to your prayer why can't you just put ear phone and do the same. Is it necessary to irritate others???

So many good books are pending to read, i hope to complete them.

Human Resources, Training and Development and Organizational Change is something that i am looking forward to.

I cannot understand this complicated Indian Society, day by day it is getting even more complicated.

The writing of Ms Annie Zaidi are impressive, i have really come to admire this woman.

Just feel like escaping to some lush beaches and enjoying the sunrise and sunset out there. I hope it happens one day.

I hope that our youth finds an icon in Gen V.K. Singh, i really feel that he is a man of substance.

This Bhaveen Sheth signing of for the day , will be back with a lot more.

Bhaeen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts-Part 8

I Watch House full 2. It is hilarious, provided you don't analyze the movie intellectually.

On Facebook i see one swine getting engaged to the beauty of his fantasy. This man took this very girl under the nose of his best friend and got a hardworking colleague out from work to take his position.

The Smile i see on his face, man!!!, it shows the achievement of a Negro winning over a White Female. No wonder the Sales of Fair and Lovely and Fair and Handsome are Sky rocketing.

I also see another married fellow openly flaunting his new wife in all types of poses on a beach.

People in Senior Positions sometimes don't know how to control their words, often sending wrong messages across to their colleagues and subordinates.

Pathetic Organizations get national awards, sad to see that Quality and Excellence Awards can be bought in this Country at a price.

Dysfunctional families are created by the very individuals who have no competency to run a famaily.

I ask my self where to go, whether the direction that i am taking is right or wrong?? Career Growth is all i want.

Travel,oh how much i love it, going to new places, the very excitement that comes when one is travelling.

I wait and i wait for the decisions to come and i hope they are the best for me.

Maximum Mumbai City, that's what a lot of people say. I fail to understand that how can you life your life, commuting 3 to 4 hours on a daily basis.

I read the news showcasing the recent gruesome murders in Bollywood. How desperation for money and glamour and lead  people to do horrendous things??

I remember a man who is trapped in a dysfunctional marriage, and the worst part about him is that his wive denies him sex as a punishment to him. No wonder he looks ans sounds so desperate. Every other word from his mouth is about Sex and F@#%. A Sexual Predator on a lookout.

Some good books, that what i need to relax and chill, hope i can lay my hands on them soon.

This is Bhaveen Sheth Signing of for the Day, will Be back with More.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts-Part-7

Just another Sunday!!!! It has become a routine thing in life.

I wait and wait for the replies to come. Patience after all is a virtue.

Exercises are taking a toll on me, feel tired day by day.

I read the book "The case of the Exploding Mangoes" and it gives me an insight of the fanatic and diabolical nature of General Zia ul Haq.

It is strange but it takes the innocence of a small child to remind you how beautiful the world is. Something that i have forgotten in all these years. I am amazed to see myself change my mentality and my nature infront of that child.

Rejections and more rejections that come through online matrimonial sites. Looks like the Institution of Marriage has been reduced to window shopping.

"I paid Rs 70,000 for my sons half yearly fees" This what one of my PG mate tells me. Looks like education is becoming an expensive luxury day by day.

I am happy to see that my Friend and colleague who did not have a job for months together has got a good job which is at a good location.

It can be heart breaking for someone at 55 and that too having many family responsibilities to be jobless. i have seen this friend of mine go through the same.

The discussion on the topic of my single comes up. My friend says that i should get married in a years time.It is amazing to see that people decide on your future without understanding your personal problems.

A happy family which stays together is the only thing that members of the Indian Society dreams and cherishes of every single day.

Facing difficulties and problems is something that our society is not accustomed of.

As i start aging, i strengthen my resolve of being fit and remaining healthy.

What is the point of chasing dreams and desires just in order to fulfill the demands of other people and stay a conformist to the norms of the Society????

Reading, watching movies, exploring and blog writing and many other passions to pursue.How can one abandon them just to take the social responsibilities of the Society.

And what society am i living in?? A society which runs on doubles standards, one which practices hate and discrimination,where people are tied in the bond of sufferings!!!!!!!

The biggest problem is that there are a few people who have taken the courage to stay away from the norms of this society, and i am proud to say i am one of them.

I don't know what the future has in store for me. But i promise my self to live a happy life and pursue my interests and passions.

Day by Day i work on improving my Business and Corporate Communication and i very well know that it is this skill that will take me ahead.

I now begin my journey of consolidation and and try to reach the apex of the summit that i want to be at.

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts-Part 6

A new place to see, new people to meet and in one go I impress them.

Business Communication has a role to play and i will master this skill.

Strange ,someone shows interest in me yesterday and likes my talk but later an electronic rejection comes.

Yesterday it was “Oh!!! You are such a nice person” and today no response, the person chooses to disappear.

This affirms the reality that in the Indian Society people like fantasy and no one wants to accept and face reality.

Is it a sin to be truthful with people??

I will never understand the Indian Society, in spite of spending 30 years of life in it.

No!!!!! It is better that I stay alone; at least i don’t have to justify myself and be answerable.

It is terrible thing to have someone in your life and then be abandoned and left alone. I have faced it once, can’t face it another time.

I have message to almighty god that please don’t give us a life and then take it back, that can be the worst thing that you can do to us.

We Destitute Orphans forget that we can never be a part of the society. There is no place for us in this society, we are better of single.

I am content to live like an Eagle, to soar the skies, to live alone and to die alone.

I will touch the clouds in the Sky with glory.

Happy to be to be certified in to two more additional quality subjects.

I promise myself that I will excel in my area of expertise. No other happiness can match the High that you get when you realize that you are a subject matter expert.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing of for the Day, will be back with more.

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts-5

Just got interested in the field of Business Communication.

Intend to learn it thoroughly well and hopefully teach it to some MBA Students in future.

Communication is one skill that today’s generation is still lacking.

The effects of cardiovascular Endurance are just amazing.

I intend to make myself an epitome of cardiovascular endurance. The combination of swimming, jogging and cycling will help me get there.

Strange it may seem, but i see a lot of people spending lakhs of rupees to lose weight in posh gyms and wellness centers, when all they can do is run and jog for 5 kms a day.

Snorkeling and Scuba Diving, something that i have recently added to my checklist of things that i need to do in life.

What can be more exhilarating than exploring the sea and watching the marine life?

Call me selfish or self indulgent but what’s the harm in living your life.

Healthcare Quality Improvement, Patient Safety and Training and Development have become my passion. 

There is a lot of happiness and contentment seen in patients walking out safe from the hospital and fully satisfied with the services given due to the systems you have put into the place and the staffs that have been trained by you.

And as i would like conclude, “LIFE, here I come to live”.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the Day, will be back with more.

Bhaveen Sheth-Some random Thoughts Part-4

Life now seems to be falling into place.

Documentation procedures are extensive but they need to be done.

Spending my time reading and studying a lot of material.

Wisdom gained through knowledge is amazing.

Cardiovascular Exercises have started to make an impact on me, i find myself more peaceful and calm.

I have decided to improve my endurance to the highest levels.

Just a month left to go and i will touch 30, I am homeless and destitute.

I have stopped focusing on my past and have started concentrating on my future.

To have a home, no matter how small ,is my primary goal.

The quest for a home may take time but the focus will not shift.

Living a single life is bliss and i am enjoying every moment of it without any regrets.

I am intending to make the journey of life more exciting.

Everyday 50 interests are expressed in profiles of woman on shaadi.com, majority of them are rejected upfront with some minorities accepting my interest.

Strange, sad but true even womanwho are divorcees and in their middle ages have started to reject me. Am I turning into an out caste?

Fact it , that i have been blunt in writing my profile, expressing all the bitter truth about my life, and truth is something that the Indian Society is not willing to hear or accept.

And I have stopped giving a damn; i just want to life my life.

I am not desperate for any companionship, if there is one thing that I am really desperate for is a home , a permanent home on my name. Can’t live like a bloody refugee in the country of my origin.

IPL Season 5 has started, another worthless game and nothing but a waste of time. I just wish that my fellow countrymen put their minds in some useful activity that leads to growth and intellectual development.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and i will be back with more.

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts Part 3

I do feel guilty at times.

Abandoning an Individual who had taken made professional changes only by trusting me.

Abandoning Entrepreneurs who took my support to start their project.

But then i tell myself that i was not responsible for all the mishappenings.

I try now to redeem my self.

Situations, Circumstances and people have made me realize the potential that i have and the skills that i can use.

Have got a bit lazy in between, but will have to come back to normal self.

Am trying to keep my sanity.

Leadership Skills will ow be gradually be developed and put to use.


Till then i will keep on working and achieve my goals.

This is Bhaveen Sheth, signing out for the Day.

Bhaveen Sheth-Some Random Thoughts Part-2

Trying to relax and watch the situation unfold.

Cataclysmic Events are taking place, all hell has broken loose.

Fire Fighting has been initiated, reminds me of the Bhopal Gas Tragedy.

No attention was given to the existing problems in spite of  repeated warnings.

The powers that be, who were constantly being updated on the situation were reclusive at that time.

Strange to see that the same people are now trying to save name, face and reputation.

Blame Game is the norm of the Day.

No one is willing to take any individual responsibility.

Disappointments and Disillusionment is seen everywhere.

Greed and Ego has ruined everything.

And now Bhaveen Sheth signs off for the day, will come back tomorrow, would like to put in more thoughts.

Bhaveen Sheth

Some Random Thoughts-Part One

Some random thoughts always come in my mind and before i let it escape from my head, let me pen hmmm................ well blog post it down.

• I try to live in peace, some people don't want me to.

• Some people are desperately trying to protect their backs and bottoms that they shall go to any extent to get things done.

• No one is willing to take the responsibility, everyone is trying to toss the ball.

• Tempers run high when all hell breaks loose.

• Instant Gratification is all that people want, be it in business, service or personal relations.

• Greedy people look out for instant revenues, they expect that their staff's are blessed with a Midas touch and will turn everything into gold wherever and whatever they will touch.

• Over promise and under deliver or in some cases don't even deliver has become the motto of the present times.

• The employee is your temporary negroid slave, he is there to serve you and has no personal life of his own.

• Work hard, put in efforts, trouble shoot problems, manage difficulties on your own, handle difficult people and ther over inflated egos and things even more than that, but in the end nothing matters, what matters is Money and only money.

• "Invest in something only when you understand it", "Who said that?????" Well it was Warren Buffet, sad that today also greedy fools invest in something that is rocket science to them but gives them the fake dream that they will become reach in a fortnight.

• Frustration, hatred, irritation, anger, rage, grudge and many other negative emotions meet on crossroads in the head of these people when their dreams of instant Gratification are not fulfilled.

• Dignity and self respect is lost when one has to work for such type of people.

• On the personal note, some guy coming form one of the most backward areas of this country where the sex ratios of Males to Females is 1000 to 869, where girls are born to die, makes a critical comment on my being single.

• 'You are 30, you should be the father of a five year old by now" says  the 25 year old wearing the latest brands available in the market but, has the mentality of an Indian living in India that used to exist before its independence.

• Can't understand why??? That ,when any ordinary citizen in this country gets married, he becomes a self styled preacher to the society educating everyone and anyone on the sheer joys of Matrimony.

• Meet the same guy after 10 years and ask him a Question, "My Friend, how is yourmarried life going??? You do not need him to reply and elucidate the same, one look at him shall explain it all.

• He will be pot bellied, hairs greying  that make his head look like a pigeon nest, trying to make ends meet, paying all the EMI's  that he has taken, hating his job, getting insulted by his boss not only a daily basis but on an hourly basis, a wife who feels that he is the most worthless husband existing on this planet, kids who neither respect him nor whom he can control or discipline.

• Then I ask this man "Why did you get Married?" Are you Happy, as you were 10 years back??

• Indian men are socially conditioned to take the support of a Female, Mother and Sister in the Initial years, Grilfriend in the adolescent and teenage years and Wife and Daughter in the later years. Imagining life without a woman is a nightmare for them, they will cringe,criticize and hate their woman but in the end they will always go back to them. No matter how good/Bad she is.

• And as of now i want to read, write and study , so for gods sake i hope i am left alone.