Hello everyone, This is Bhaveen Sheth. My blog pens down thoughts and experiences on myself and life in general living as a Single Indian male in the complicated Indian Society. It is also for all the like minded Single Indian Males who want to find a meaning in their lives.This blog will address problems pertaining to the single Indian men, their hopes, aspirations, dreams, difficulties, problems etc. You can share your experiences living as a single male in India with me.
Saturday, February 8, 2014
On being Happily unmarried or being unhappily married
I come across a lot of people who often say that they are happily married when they introduce themselves.
And I, the single Indian Male often wonders, is it all true??? How come everyone is happily married???? HAHAHAHAHAHAA, its all a bluff. We Indians love faking a happy marriage in front of people.
The single people are often made to feel unhappy , courtesy their single status.
And then I say, where is the happiness in a dysfunctional marriage?? Where is the happiness in being stuck with a person whom you cant even relate to??? Where is the happiness in living a dull mediocre life???
No pun intended, but majority of Indian men get married for two things, just two things. Sex and society approval. That's it. That is the only thing that one gets married for. And when the sexual hangover is over, the society approval has come through, life just becomes boring. There is nothing special.
No one, just no one has ever advertised the concept of a happy single life in India. No one has portrayed a happy unmarried life. Why???? Cause such things don't sell dude. Just imagine if solo living was strongly advertised it would have become a threat to the entire matrimonial industry.
And if given a choice of what I the single Indian male would like to choose a single life, at least it guarantees happiness.
And I, the single Indian Male often wonders, is it all true??? How come everyone is happily married???? HAHAHAHAHAHAA, its all a bluff. We Indians love faking a happy marriage in front of people.
The single people are often made to feel unhappy , courtesy their single status.
And then I say, where is the happiness in a dysfunctional marriage?? Where is the happiness in being stuck with a person whom you cant even relate to??? Where is the happiness in living a dull mediocre life???
No pun intended, but majority of Indian men get married for two things, just two things. Sex and society approval. That's it. That is the only thing that one gets married for. And when the sexual hangover is over, the society approval has come through, life just becomes boring. There is nothing special.
No one, just no one has ever advertised the concept of a happy single life in India. No one has portrayed a happy unmarried life. Why???? Cause such things don't sell dude. Just imagine if solo living was strongly advertised it would have become a threat to the entire matrimonial industry.
And if given a choice of what I the single Indian male would like to choose a single life, at least it guarantees happiness.
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