Yes, you read it right, when a marriage goes sour in India, it becomes an all out world war. This is the harsh reality. No one acknowledges it but it is true.
We Indians have too many expectations from a marriage and a future life partner. We are delusional, unrealistic and live in a dreamworld of our own. Our thinking is influenced by Bollywood and Indian Television shows. Everyone expects a perfect marriage and a wonderful life partner.
But what happens when things don't work out the way you wanted? What happens when the marriage falters? What happens when your partner does not meet your expectations?
Do we part amicably? Do we say goodbyes and move on? NO!! We don't.
There is an all out world war or I would put it as war of the families. We exact revenge on the other and put down the other family. We do litigation, go to courts, ask for divorce settlements, alimony and property. There are allegations and counter allegations, many of them are false. We wash out dirty family linen in public. We have showdowns in the police stations and the courts.
The woman and her family seeks vengeance and retribution. No opportunity is spared in destroying the husband and the family. Go to any family court and you will see people abusing and fighting with each other.These people are driven by rage, ego and hatred.
In no other nation will one see hatred to this level. Rational people separate through mutual divorce but then are we Indians rational? In marital relationships there is either extreme love or extreme hatred, nothing like normal.
And this is the bitter reality. Family breakdowns are increasing and we get to see family wars erupting.
And here the Indian MGTOW cautions his fellow single Indian men, is marriage really worth it? Especially when the woman's family is hell bent on murdering you if things don't work out.
Think, introspect and rationalize.
The MGTOW life is the best you can ever have.
Bhaveen Sheth
INDIAN MGTOW.
