Yes, you read it right, when a marriage goes sour in India, it becomes an all out world war. This is the harsh reality. No one acknowledges it but it is true.
We Indians have too many expectations from a marriage and a future life partner. We are delusional, unrealistic and live in a dreamworld of our own. Our thinking is influenced by Bollywood and Indian Television shows. Everyone expects a perfect marriage and a wonderful life partner.
But what happens when things don't work out the way you wanted? What happens when the marriage falters? What happens when your partner does not meet your expectations?
Do we part amicably? Do we say goodbyes and move on? NO!! We don't.
There is an all out world war or I would put it as war of the families. We exact revenge on the other and put down the other family. We do litigation, go to courts, ask for divorce settlements, alimony and property. There are allegations and counter allegations, many of them are false. We wash out dirty family linen in public. We have showdowns in the police stations and the courts.
The woman and her family seeks vengeance and retribution. No opportunity is spared in destroying the husband and the family. Go to any family court and you will see people abusing and fighting with each other.These people are driven by rage, ego and hatred.
In no other nation will one see hatred to this level. Rational people separate through mutual divorce but then are we Indians rational? In marital relationships there is either extreme love or extreme hatred, nothing like normal.
And this is the bitter reality. Family breakdowns are increasing and we get to see family wars erupting.
And here the Indian MGTOW cautions his fellow single Indian men, is marriage really worth it? Especially when the woman's family is hell bent on murdering you if things don't work out.
Think, introspect and rationalize.
The MGTOW life is the best you can ever have.
Bhaveen Sheth
INDIAN MGTOW.
I agree about the state of marriage and marital laws and eventually the involvement of courts in a relationship. I'm disillusioned with the system and I'm a woman. I think it's not only men who suffer but many sensitive and naive women coming from genteel families as well. I've wondered how can a law bind love and ensure harmony?!
ReplyDeleteWomen grow up dreaming ofhaving a ball at the expense of the man's riches. Their mothers are hellbent upon extricating all. On the other hand, men's mothers dream of rolling in gold at the expense of an earning and moneyed maid who is made to sweep the floors without eating anything.
Our society is full of leeches. They work hard to suck the lifeblood out of the other instead of earning honest money using that energy and intrigue. The education given to all is parasitic.
One can choose to be honest, loving but no! Socially, the more cunning you are, the more adored you shall be.
The nuisance value matters, not the virtuous value.