Hard work, dedication, creativity and perseverance has finally paid off. On this Monday I got a message from twitter wherein my blog was rated a one of the top 15 websites for Indian men. The screenshot and link is being shared below:
This inspires me to write more content on issues related to single Indian men and MGTOWs.
Expect more write ups from my side.
Bhaveen Sheth Indian MGTOW
We are living in times of leftist liberal feminazi cancel culture combined with a snow flake generation that is equally hyper sensitive even to listen to another person's point of view.
The topic of a homemaker always leads to heated arguments. The leftist liberals are always in arms if a man says that he wants his future spouse to be a home maker. I mean don't we have a thriving democracy in our country where freedom of expression and choice of lifestyle in the the basic fundamental right of each and every individual? Expectation of what a future spouse should be an individual choice.
Our so called leftist liberals have run a false narrative for the last 20 years stating that house work is slavery, unpaid labour that never gets compensated and exploitation of women. They want all women to abandon housework and go to work in offices.
Now I am all for women's empowerment and believe in equality but not all women have equal opportunities in terms of education and career opportunities, not all women are blessed with a high level of intellect or motor skills that allows them to compete equally in today's workforce. Some women just manage to complete graduation and some undertake post graduation, however many of them end up with entry level positions in the job market. Again nothing wrong with that.
But then are there jobs where career growth and progression is guaranteed? Do these jobs give satisfaction? This is a question that is difficult to answer. Thirty years ago young girls were sent to undertake home science classes so that it would prepare them to become good home makers and again it was not regressive. We were a closed economy with a socialist culture. Jobs were not easy to come and the men used to work and women used to take care of the home and children.
Things changed, in 1991 our economy opened up and many jobs were created. Along with this a leftist liberal narrative was put through in print media and Television on Indian women being forcibly put at homes after marriage and being asked to give up their careers.Let me tell you this was a false propaganda. Time and again the Indian society has supported its women in terms of their career choice. Many women have chosen to work after getting married and husbands and in-laws have permitted it.
Now let us come to the main topic. What is wrong if a man who earns a good salary expects his future spouse to be a home maker? What is wrong if he expects his wife to cook for him and look after his home and children? Is it a crime? Why then is he labeled as a male chauvinistic pig and called regressive? I am sure an Indian man is not looking for that B-School IIM pass out who is working hard in the corporate world and wants to climb the ladder as soon as possible, he is not looking for a scientist working in ISRO or DRDO. He is just looking for a simple women who is a graduate or post graduate. He is looking for a homely women. Now is he is earning more that Rs 50,000 , why does he need to have a wife who will work? I mean, if she is also earning Rs 40,000, maybe it is contributing to the household expenses, but, is she is earning just Rs 15 K to Rs 20 K, what is the point of doing a job? I mean just look, she will be spending a good amount of money in just travelling considering the rising fuel prices. With rising competition, today's workplaces are filled with targets and goals, life is stressful and again you cannot leave your workplace at 5 pm, you have to stretch beyond office hours. Is it worth?
A homemaker is a blessing to the family. She can take good care of her children, in-laws and the house. I myself have come across many such home makers who may be just HSC pass or graduates but are street smart. They are extremely skillful in managing homes, they can negotiate prices with the vegetable seller, find the best home equipments from local markets and cook delicious meals. The Covid pandemic and lockdown clearly showed how important home making skills were, many of these educated working women who used to look down upon home makers found it difficult to manage their kitchens without their maids and cooks. This is the importance of a homemaker.
So then why do people get offended when someone expects his future wife to be a home maker? It is his choice. Is he expecting his female colleague to give up her job and become a homemaker? NO!!! Then why do people get offended? The answer lies in the glorification of a false narrative and brainwashing two generations. The so called journalists of NDTV and their counter parts run debates and talk shows on prime time showing how regressive the concept of a home maker/housewife is. Believe me these journalists(being women) don't even know how to make a simple meal at their homes and are fully dependent on their maids. All they know is just to talk and shriek in English. They are after all the Macaulay Putris who behave like those anglicized mems of the British Raj. With their false propaganda they brainwash an entire generation.
Let me share an example with you. When it comes to buying a car, the majority in India prefer a car that falls into their budget. People prefer a Maruti Alto , Hyundai Santro, Renault Kwid or Tata Tiago. All these models fall into the budget of middle class or upper class. Now will brands like BMW, Mercedes, Audi or Ford get offended and try to shut down the car brands that cater to the needs of the middle class?No they won't. Because they know their market segment and their customers. So why do these so called feminists get offended?
The answer is because they know that contrary to what they think, men don't want to marry them because of their strong feminist ideology. When men go for lesser educated women who are willing to take care of the home, these women become angry, because somewhere they realize that they cannot mange their own homes without the help and support of their maids and cooks. If these women are married, their husbands are beta male simps who don't mind washing up the dishes, so these women feel that all husbands should also behave like beta male simps. Many of these women are either unmarried of separated. Even if matrimonial alliances come their way, the expectation is that of a home maker and for some reason they get rejected. Now they feel that every other women should not be a home maker.
I clearly remember a few years back, Ms. Mira Rajput, the wife of actor Shahid Kapoor had made the following statement:
The new wave of feminism is aggressive and destructive. There is a term called 'feminazi' which is now becoming the female equivalent of a male chauvinist."
"I am a housewife and wear that label with pride," Mira Rajput added, "Why can't you be an accomplished homemaker? Accomplishing could mean anything one has their heart set on. I had a tough pregnancy, bringing Misha (seven-month-old daughter) into this world. Now, I love being at home and spending time with my child. I don't want to spend an hour with her and then rush to work. It's not that I am not a woman of today. You don't have to compromise on traditions and ideals to be modern."
Now this statement triggered the feminazi brigade to such an extent that they went online trolling and bashing Ms.Mira Rajput. They didn't even spare a woman. This is their level of toxicity.
Child care is important. And if a man wants his spouse to be a home maker, he has every right to it. His thought process should not be questioned. What is the point of doing a job that pays you Rs 15-20 K in a metro city? What is the point of having an education when one does not have any career progression or growth path? The life in today's organizations is filled with stress and tension. Is it worth it? While the leftist liberals don't want women to be home makers, many surveys have repeatedly stated that women are more happy being at homes and taking care of their families.
Any man reading this post should not be ashamed if he wants his future spouse to be a home maker.
I rest my case.
By the time you reach your late 30's, you realize that you have made the right decision by taking up and following the MGTOW Lifestyle. Many people have criticized me for running away from basic responsibilities. When I ask what were the the responsibilities and I get a reply of not getting married or having a family of my own. I have stopped caring nowadays.
You see, in India , if you are a man you are always expected to meet certain expectations, fulfill obligations and have many burdens dumped upon you for no reason. All this is okay till you finish your college and start earning but then why does society push us further? Why are we forced into getting married?
Now I am no expert to answer this question. To each one his own and I am better off minding my own business. Marriage in India puts lots of responsibilities on men. Unlike the West, you don't marry an individual, you marry the entire family and hence you become a part of a larger society. Two individuals can remain happy but to make 2 entire families happy is no easy task.
Once you get married, your expenditure sky rockets, after having a child, a man faces major challenges. Healthcare and Education take a huge toll on one's income. Even after 70 years of independence, basic services like education and healthcare are in a pathetic state. This has lead to privatization of these services where even the lower middle class people are forced to avail the same.
When you live in a society, you are expected to meet the so called standards set by it. Having a house, a car, attending social functions of the larger family and friends, giving out gifts, celebrating birthdays and anniversaries, dinning out a expensive restaurants on weekends, vacations in India and abroad and rest of the things.
At 39, I am so happy of not being a part of this so called circus. I don't have to spend money on worthless things just to meet someones expectations.
This my friends are the real benefits of following a MGTOW lifestyle in India. So if you have chosen the path of MGTOW but are not sure about it,believe me, this is are the true words of a 39 year old veteran MGTOW. Go ahead and live your life, away from the burdens and expectations of the Indian society.
Greetings my dear single Indian men and fellow MGTOWs. I hope you all are doing well. My sincere apologies for not being able to write for the last few months. Work and personal things had kept me busy.I hope this year brings you peace, prosperity and joy.
Last year was miserable for all of us, the COVID Pandemic and subsequent lockdown made life difficult. Even as I write this post our country is going through its 2nd wave and we do not know when the cases will plummet.
As we step into a new decade, we must understand the challenges that we as single Indian men and MGTOWs will face. The most important: Retaining your current job. The economic slow down and recession caused due to the Pandemic and lockdowns has increased unemployment and lead to job cuts. I sincerely hope all my fellow readers have been able to retain their jobs.
This year we should focus on our health and well being. Please do away with bad habits if you have any. It is important that we eat the right food and undertake regular exercise, work on body sculpting and improve one's stamina. Mental health is another aspect that we should not neglect. Yoga and meditation will be helpful combined with forming a good friend circle made up with positive people. They will become our support system.
As our honorable Prime Minister had stated last year, it is time for us to become Atmanirbhar i.e become self dependent, self sufficient and self reliant. We must learn cooking, doing our daily chores independently.Buy a vehicle so that we are not dependent on public transport. Most important we must get into the habit of living alone.
Finally I must warn all my single Indian male readers on not becoming desperate for marriage or companionship due to the COVID Pandemic.These are difficult times indeed.
Once again I wish you all the best and hope this year bring positive improvements in your life.
No other bollywood filmstar other than Sanjay Dutt would have courted so much controversy that this actor Salman Khan has. Even when our press and social media has reported accounts of his dark behaviour and misdeeds, Mr. Salman Khan enjoys a large fan base. After all , we are a nation of fools and idiots.
Now I or the fraternity of the Single Indian men don't have any problem with him. We don't follow him on social media or watch his trashy movies. Unfortunately the larger Indian population,time and again, tries to associate us with this character/creature called Salman Khan.
I am sure that Single Indian men and MGTOWs reading this post will be able to understand. Whenever we state that we want to remain single and don't intend to get married, we are taunted whether we want to become the next Salman Khan. I guess empathy and understanding is something that my fellow Indian men lack and if that was not enough they are too bothered in what is happening in the lives of other people.
So in this blog post , I would like to write my thoughts on why decent Single Indian men should not be associated with Salman Khan:
We don't take steroids in order to build our bodies. Fitness may be important for us but not at the cost of of our health.
We don't physically or verbally abuse girlfriends. Truth is that we don't have any girl friends in the first place.Even if we were seeing someone we would not do such a thing.
We are law abiding citizens and do not drink and drive or run our cars over people sleeping on the footpath.
We are animal lovers and even if we are not, we don't go around killing poor animals in the name of hunting that too the endangered species.
We don't associate with goons, hoodlums, dons and mafias as we have nothing to do with them.
We are humble, rational and accommodating human beings and don't go across destroying the lives or careers of other people. We don't have a fragile super ego.
We are middle class or upper middle class people and don't have a harem of girls at our disposal. We neither have the cash or the celebrity status to have girls around us and truth be told , we have much better things to do than spend time with girls.
I hope that people can understand these basic facts and stop associating us with this anti-social character. There are many men who remain single by choice. This is something that married Indian men won't understand. Rationalizing with these men is not possible. In my country people hardly read, they hardly travel beyond the confines of their own towns and cities, they hardly meet people from diverse cultures or backgrounds. In India, Individuality is not respected or tolerated.
But whatever it may be, we the Single Indian men don't want to become Salman Khan.
Bhaveen Sheth
Indian MGTOW
The Single Indian man writes this post for all NRI's and PIO's that they should stop coming down to Indian in order to look for some beautiful bride in order to get married. Parents and young men based abroad (on work visa, Green Card or Permanent Resident), if you are reading this post , I kindly request you to strongly consider my advice. I am sharing two articles from a website Men's Day Out. This is about a men based abroad who came down to India in order to marry the women of their dreams. Post marriage a major tragedy happened. Please read the content below as I have copied it from the website:
If you are an NRI groom looking for a bride from India, there are certain facts that you must be aware of. It is also advisable to understand the matrimonial laws that exist in India, clubbed with the very challenging legal system that make take decades for a divorce proceeding to end.
In most cases where innocent men, their parents, siblings are trapped, pressure is built on the groom’s family by filing false cases even under the criminal sections of the IPC. Somehow the husband and his parents have to come to the negotiating table, before they are set free. Of course, we are not generalising these instances, however, it is always wise to know what could be in store for you or your son!
I am a commoner who had dreams of a perfect marriage and loved my wife with all my heart and soul. My idea of marriage being a bliss to a journey of harassment and a nightmare is worth a share. I am writing this with a lot of pain, as sharing my personal life is not who I am. But, if my story can alert the rest of you, why not?
I have a deep respect for all, be it women or men, and hence treated my better half equally. But did I do anything wrong being kind? I married my wife with the idea of giving her a beautiful life and fulfilling all her dreams, in fact, I considered her as my dream and was thoughtful about every occasion from the day of our marriage to honeymoon.
I never realised her wishes were demands. I happily gifted her first diamond ring and also paid for our wedding, little did I know that my wife was faking her feelings and scamming me to a marriage which is going to be her source of lifetime income. Today I have been accused of Section 498A (Dowry Law) in the name of women empowerment. Don’t get me wrong but this isn’t feminism nor women empowerment.
It took a lot of effort and hard work to achieve my career goals, and I moved to the United States Of America with my wife from India hoping to give her a better lifestyle and dreaming that she will be my emotional support to do so.
I was stunned by her change of behavior and disrespectful attitude after we moved to the states. Constant fights and abuse became a routine. I was shattered and felt hopeless with her quick change of personality. Let me tell you she is the same woman who enjoyed the benefits of a one-month Euro Trip as a honeymoon getaway. I have never questioned her needs and been a good husband providing her with all that she asks. I got lied and betrayed and stolen in the name of marriage for 5 long years. The irony is, after providing everything she asked for, I am fighting a dowry charge against me, which is character assassination and a black mark in my life for loving and marrying a con artist like my wife ….
I saw her love and interest (which was fake) fading away in just 8 months of our marriage. As soon as she realized that the only way to get money was by filing a divorce, she ruthlessly filed a false dowry harassment case against me in Indian court to extort a huge amount of alimony settlement.
I met my wife through a matrimonial site jeevansathi.com in the year 2014. We went on a couple of dates, and on 05-17-2014 we registered our marriage in Bangalore, India. She expressed her interest in a fine cut VVS1 category 1-carat diamond ring and one month Euro Trip as her marriage gift.
I happily fulfilled both her demands as a new beginning of my life with my wife. All I had for her was unconditional Love. She was gifted (180 gm) of our ancestral gold jewelry as our marriage gift by my mother. After our marriage, I took her for a Euro Trip for almost a month as promised, and then we moved to the USA. I spoilt her with holidays in New York, California, Las Vegas, Miami.…….
After 6 months of marriage, she duped me an amount of Rs 19 lakh in the name of medical expenses for her parents, I discovered this was a lie and alerted myself and stopped saying yes for unnecessary financial demands. However, I still provided her a home to live and loved her. I might have let it go if she had changed her behaviour. Well, I wasn’t lucky enough for that kind of peace from her.
When I questioned her illegal and unfair demands, she immediately decided to separate from me. It took just 8 months to break our marriage, and she filed divorce seeking Rs 2.5 crores as alimony.
The USA court denied the alimony as the marriage was just less than a year old and we did not have any child.…..JUSTICE WAS DELIVERED IN USA
She then flew back to India and immediately filed false dowry FIR against me and my aged parents who never lived with her. Soon after which an arrest warrant got issued against all accused in her FIR.
My entire family went through harassment and anxiety during this process. She didn’t leave any means to achieve her filthy desire, she got to a level of publishing our personal affair in the local newspaper which traumatised my aged parents and harmed my sibling’s social life status. It’s not over here folks!
Huh, she had the audacity to reach my employer in the USA through email and phone and sent numerous emails to my CEO, Vice President, Director, manager, and various co-workers portraying me as an absconding criminal and demanded my termination multiple times.
Her insanity level reached twitter, where she illegally posted very sensitive private information such as my Indian passport, My Driving License, My social Security number here in the US which hampered my security. She also tagged my employer and higher authorities from India and the US with the intention of extorting money. She strongly believed that I would reach my saturation and pay her which did not happen as I believed in getting justice.
I had to travel to India multiple times in a year to face the legal formalities and defend myself in court.
She demands a one-time settlement in crores, to take back the false cases, and settle everything outside court. The entire journey made me realize her marriage was a planned divorce to seek money and abandon me in 8 months of marriage. Wow, that is a good idea for lifetime alimony.
Throughout my situation, I have always respected the law and paid her a huge amount of monthly maintenance. She lied to the Indian judicial system and to me about her employment and claims to be unemployed. However, it did not take me a long time to find our her employment status.
I still wanted to settle it and paid more than 30 lakh for her maintenance to date. I need justice and I have decided to STOP paying her due to her discourteous behavior and constant extortion of money which has led me to financial difficulties. She has not left any means to destroy me, and my family, our dignity, and my career.
After I stopped my payments due to financial hardships caused by her, she immediately gets a levy warrant issued from the court against me for non-payment of maintenance amount and misused the arrest warrant by sending it to across to my workplace, social media claiming that I am a criminal.
Recently she tried to impound my passport and cancel my visa due to non-payment. She is well aware that I have no other source of income to survive or to pay her. Her psychotic behavior is a threat to our nation and everybody surrounding her.
Let me share the creepy side of my wife . She has forged my signature with RTI(Right to Information) using my ID (passport, Driving license photocopy which she had in her possession ), and gets my current records, which she misuses. If divorce is her aim, wouldn’t she fight the case and respect the law as I do? She is well aware of the fact that she will lose in the court and will not end up getting her alimony, due to which she is ruthless and strong-willed to destroy my future.
She got me terminated from my job in the year 2018 by providing false information to the United States Embassy stating my Indian passport was lost, and they are supposed to cancel my visa for security reasons.
I got stuck in India during the incident. She was well aware of the situation as I was attending court to settle our divorce. Her actions made me more stubborn to seek justice and not to pay her as she has received more than what she deserves emotionally and financially. I have gone through anxiety and mental stress costing me my job and career, and it doesn’t make sense to me to pay her more.
My wife has proved to be a sociopath, who desires my death naturally by stress or suicide. I belong to a middle-class family, and I have worked hard to reach this point in my life. I am the only source of income for my parents. Today I question her mental stability, her morals, and her greed for money as she is not willing to move on when I agreed for a settlement. It’s not a Man’s mistake in every scenario.” women can be wrong!”
In the last 5 years, I have traveled to India for about 20 times in order to attend court and has cost me a fortune.
She uses her Twitter account to claim I am a criminal. It is an offense to do so because it’s up to the court to decide and I am confident to win this case.
The Entire journey has cost me my dignity. I have lost my savings, fighting for justice. Why is the Indian Judicial system biased towards women? Who gives authority to any person to be abusive and disclose personal information on social media?
I have lost my peace, serenity, and belief in love due to my marriage with my wife. It’s funny that in the Indian Court of Law if a male is accused, he is presumed to be guilty until he proves himself innocent. However, my question to the system is what is the charge if you file a false complaint and ruin someone’s life and slander social status? AND THE ANSWER IS my wife will be fined Rs 500 (less than 10$) for filing false cases. That’s all!
The Indian Judicial system is not performing the ground research on people like my wife who is a BTech from Bhilai Institute of technology and MBA from Symbiosis International University under a quota system and worked as a manager in companies like IBM, WIPRO, DELL in India and abroad. And now she claims to be unemployed and has no source of income other than her husband due to which she gains monthly maintenance as per my US salary in dollars.
This matrimonial case is the biggest battle for me, but I still believe in our legal system and I have complete faith that Justice will be served.
I will be going through the process of harassment until I prove myself in the court, and my wife is enjoying her job and income with no guilt. I have no source to know her relationship status. A con artist like her can never be single, so I just want to connect to all her friends and people who know her and let the world know that I am her current husband.
And any information about my wife is highly appreciable. This will help me to get justice and save other individuals from her vicious traps.
Thank You for reading my story!
I hope you have read both the articles above and still if you have not understood the gravity of the situation , believe me you are a fool. But for those who are wise and sane, I hope you have got the message. Truth be told that modern marriages have become a scam or a favored route to loot the NRI's and rich people. If you are based abroad then please work on strengthening your roots out there. Make some good friends and understand people who come from different countries. All immigrants carry a common ambition of working and hard and making it big.
My advice to all eligible Indian men based abroad is that they should meet and date non-Indian women or Indian women who belong to the second or third generation immigrants. Believe me these women are more rational, understanding and accommodating than the ones you are planning to bring from India after marriage.
Stop worrying about the purity of cultures and genes that you want your children to have. What matters is that you find a spouse who will understand and support you after marriage not to mention that she will contribute financially and help you in household activities. Western women or immigrant women are rational and hard working, they know that life is not cake walk and one must strive hard in order to survive. Additionally they come with diverse skill sets like driving, grocery shopping, paying bills, cooking, housekeeping and laundry.I agree that Western countries have its own share of irresponsible entitled princesses but I am not including them here. I am talking about rational women who have a sense of responsibility.
The problem with many Indian men is that they still believe in this so called pure traditional Indian women who is loving and caring, believe me it is just a myth. Across India , even in small cities and towns, debauchery, degeneracy and decadence has become pervasive. Stop becoming that Beta Simp who is there just to fulfill the expectations of the entitled middle class princesses.You did not work so hard to take care of free-mongers.
I hope have got my message loud and clear.
Bhaveen Sheth
The Single Indian Man.
Shaming others has now become the new norm or what I would say the new normal. We shame others in person and troll people online. Anyone who does not follow the rules of the majority or does not conform to the set norms is shamed.
People are being shamed for their body structure, their thinking, colour, caste and creed. All this has been going on for decades. However lifestyle shaming is a new thing. We as Indians love to shame others who do not conform to the normal lifestyle.
So how can MGTOWs be kept out from this shaming. As a veteran MGTOW I have often been criticized for my choice of lifestyle, I am told that I am too miser, money minded and saving a lot of money. I just don't understand these married folks. They have their families and have to spend their money on them and why are they bothered with what we do with our salary? This is because they feel that we are not living up to the so called standards of the society.
In the age of minimalism and lean management, I fail to understand why do we require unwanted materialistic things that are so big and expensive. Why is it that we believe in so much of show off. false glorification and display for no reason. Is it important to brag about every other expensive thing you bought?
As MGTOW's our lifestyle is simple and relatively inexpensive. We have minimal needs. A small house, basic electronic equipments and a decent vehicle to commute. Do we need anything more? As a veteran MGTOW , I have a set of limited clothes and possess things that I needs for may regular use. I don't need to live in a house where I have to invite people for dinner or parties, I don't need a car or a bike to impress girls and I don't believe in wasting my hard earned money on trying to fit into the crowd. So long as I am content with what I am doing and the way I am living, I am hardly bothered.
In the coming years many such married folks will taunt me and criticize me for the choice of my lifestyle. I will be told that I am saving money for no reason and will not take anything after I die, that I am not enjoying my lifestyle. I wish I could argue with these people and try to correct them by stating that expensive vehicles and house does not set a standard and one does not need to waste his money on trying to conform with the majority. But I don't. I realize that most of the married men are slaves of the society and the banking system. I choose not to argue with them.
To all my fellow MGTOWs, you will face lifestyle shaming at some point of your time and try not to get offended by them. Remember you have yourself to take care of and not people to impress, especially when people in the present times and fake and superficial.
