On boastful married Indian husbands

Collecting experiences from my every day life , I choose today to write on the boastful married Indian husbands.

Its common to come across married Indian women who keep on boasting of their children's, their capabilities, skills, achievements etc. It looks as if they are the only ones who have produced children in this world. 

But one also comes across married men who keep on boasting, they boast of their wives, their children etc. Now if an olympics were to be held in faking happiness in a marriage, I bet Indians would win the first prize.

But today i would lilke to go into the mindset of these very men, the men who just can't stop boasting!!!

And why??? Why has this become my personal vendetta???? Well , as the single Indian male, I happen to come across these looser scum bags who boast and in a way insult and humiliate the single Indian male by telling him how he has lost out in life, on how he is missing out the good things that come with marital bliss.

So here we go. Who are these F@#$%ed up creatures???. Well!!! The average Joe. Nothing special about them. If a person is happy and content with his life, why should he boast in the first place??  Only an unhappy or an insecure man will go around boasting trying to show how happy he is!!!

So here I am describling, this average or above average Ram, Shyam or Shravan. The typical idealistic son of his parents, loved by all as he happens to obey all. Many of these men even have good academic backgrounds, careers and decent jobs. Some of them have had a love marriage while others have had an arranged marriage.

And to me it looks like they have it all, a good job, decent income, a house, a trophy wife, kids etc, all that fits the criteria of a happy Indian family. This is just a look from the outside.

Come closer and you find out that all in not well . So what is actually the problem???? The problem is that these men are trying to show happiness in their marriages, they are acting to show people that they are happy.Marriage made them feel proud and why not??? In India, where there a skewed male female ratio, getting married is a big achievement, and if ones wife happens to be a fair looking, doe eyed , deer bodied beautiful woman, then that's what you call an icing on the cake.Flaunting a trophy wife is in vogue. What follows are children down the line, which makes these men  more proud, now that they have a progeny.

They boast, they flaunt. Each and every minute moment of life is boasted which later gets posted on social media sites, face book being common for all. Birthdays and anniversaries are posted in such a way that even our film stars will get some sort of inferiority complex. Even in the office, everyone is made aware that these men have has some event in their lives.

On a common day, these men boast on how loving , caring and dutiful their wives are , how brilliant their children are, how happy and lucky they are to be married. They go on and on sharing each and every minute detail of their lives.

But the truth is something else only. The truth is that the marriage has fallen apart, the truth is that the family has gone dysfunctional, the man has lost respect within his family, his wife is treating him like a jerk, she happens to emotionally abuse him with harsh criticisms, she has denied him sex for a  long time now as if it were some sort of punishment, she has even turned the kids against him, the man goes back to his family and yet has no family, he is the most loneliest person. 

He can't walk out of marriage because of the kids, parents, society pressure,home loans, EMI's yaaa and not to forget the tough anti-male marriage laws in this country. The marriage has fallen apart a long time ago, there is no solace, care, love, affection from the wife.

So what then do these men do?? They create a double life, to the outside world, they fake happiness, they boast of having a happy family because  this act gives them some kind of peace or may be tranquility, maybe by boasting they find acceptance in the outside world among others.

But the problem starts when they see the single Indian man happily living and enjoying his life. They envy and wish they could be in his shoes, they wish if they were free of responsibility, free from emotional abuse. And in order to make the single man look inferior, these losers boast about their happy family in order to get an edge over the single male, which of course never happens

So my dear single Indian male friends, you might come across such boastful losers who will try to put you down, but don't care, because at the end of the day they are nothing but men who are treated as dogs by their own wives, they are prisoners of their own dysfunctional world.

PS: I happened to come across a boastful looser Indian male who is average by all standards, a man who could not even woo a girl, who happened to get married because his parents pimped around for him and got him married. The wife happens to be the fair looking girl, a prized possession for this looser. But now after marriage, the maintenance costs have gone high, the cycle of life is running on EMI's, savings have gone for a toss, the looser does his best in trying to meet the infinite demands of his wife.Other than fair skin and a beautiful face, the wife is nothing but a dumb headed bimbo whose intellectual levels are below average. And yet and yet this man boast asif by getting married he has achieved the zenith if life.

And all I say is "Boast, please boast, because that is all that you will ever do"