Thursday, March 1, 2018

The single Indian man and the devil of loneliness-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

Loneliness is a devil that will always overshadow Indian men. No matter how happy Indian men try to be this ubiquitous and invisible devil will always try to make our lives miserable.

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I myself have fought my own battles and have to overcome loneliness.Life in India is not easy for single people especially when you are living away from your family in a big metro city filled with unfriendly people.India has been equally indifferent to single Indian men, our single status bars us from attending many functions organized by close friends and colleagues. A feeling of being left out or being segregated seeps into us.

I have seen many single Indian men who pick up bad habits and get addicted to vices like drugs, alcohol, smoking, prostitutes and a lot more. Loneliness, depression and a feeling of being left out can have terrible consequences on one's psyche.Believe me, I have gone through my share of loneliness, however I chose to lead a good life without any vices of addiction.In this blog spot, I will share the wisdom gained through my own experiences.

First of all get a yearly diary and start journaling your daily experiences, feelings, emotions, habits and achievements. Day by day you will get an opportunity to introspect yourself. This one small but important activity will have a dramatic improvement on your personality.

Avoid all those places that remind you about being a single miserable loner.Stop attending marriage functions and social gatherings, refrain from visiting pubs and malls.I may sound cynical but the truth is that these people remind your being single and leaves you depressed.

Join a gym or a sports club, start practicing to run a marathon. Physical activity is a great stress buster. You will feel good after your workout.

Get into reading. I  mean serious reading. Subscribe 2-3 newspapers per day and read at least 5-6 newspapers on Sundays. Try reading all editorials, opinions and news analysis. Over a few months you will become a knowledge bank on current affairs. Start reading books, any genre, anything that you find interesting. Reads books on classic literature or may I suggest the list called" 100 books to read before you die". Buy a kindle e-book reader, download free e-books from the internet and copy it into your kindle. This will make your reading even more interesting.

Start watching English movies and American television series.With time you will develop interest in the same and will try to watch as many series as you can.

Start backpacking across India and the world, go live in youth hostels, meet fellow backpackers and expand your social circle.You will be amazed at the wonders that backpacking will do to your personality.

I can go around writing a lot more but would like to end my post here. This is your life. You can choose to be a happy single or a miserable single.You will have to fight and overcome the devil of loneliness.The more you work on developing your self and creative engagement, the better you will get in overcoming loneliness.Never allow loneliness to get to you. Go ahead and live your life.

Wish you all the best!!!!!

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.


Sunday, January 28, 2018

From the writer's desk-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-Indian MGTOW

Greetings my dear single Indian male friends.

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I hope you guys are doing good.We have entered into the year of 2018. I am sure you guys must have made many new year resolutions that you intend to follow. Wish you guys all the best. This year my blog completes five (5) years so I am happy to say that it is the 5th anniversary of my blog. Five years ago I decided to write on issues related to single Indian men, men's rights activism, gynocentrism, feminazi culture and a toxic hate generated towards Indian men by our media. This year we will be seeing a lot of trends with the Indian men. Listed below are a few:

A slow rise of the Indian MGTOWs

While the MGTOW movement is gaining momentum worldwide especially in the Western nations, India is still slow on this front. No matter what many single Indian guys say about being single, many fall out and get married. They can't resist the charms of a feminine beauty. But still there will be men who will remain sworn MGTOWs and keep on living a meaningful life.

A steep rise in the population of the left over Indian women

We are going to see more and more single left over Indian women in their 30s, 40s and 50s. Some will be unmarried and rest will be separated, divorced or single moms. They will become more ubiquitous especially in the metros. Their toxicity will rise and their vemon will be spilled in the society destroying it further. Expect the social media, television channels and newspapers to be filled with the rants and whines of these women.

Indian men will be cheated in their marriages

Expect more Indian men to be cheated in their marriages. All of them will be marrying with noble intentions, however, post marriage they will realize the bitter truth. The wives will have a past, they  will start controlling their husbands. Marriages will break up, dreams will be shattered, bitter divorces will be fought in the courts and huge alimony settlements will take place.

Inception and amendments in anti-male, feminazi gynocentric laws

Considering that the Indian feminazis are now holding senior positions in the ruling government, judiciary, media and the NGOs along with their mangina male suckers, I predict that more laws will be made in order to terrorize the Indian men. Last year we had seen the #MeeToo movement that victimized many famous personalities in the entertainment industry of Hollwood and brought a slew of cases against them, the same will happen in India and the existing laws will be amended bringing in provision of harsh punishments to the innocent men.


This is all I have as of now. So my dear single Indian men, work hard, live your life, enjoy, chill out, stay away from dangerous Indian women and stay alert to be safe.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and I promise to be back with a lot more.

Monday, January 8, 2018

Words of wisdom for Indian women looking to get married-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The single Indian male came across a wonderful write up written by a fellow MGTOW on social media and would like to share the same with you:
 
So, You Want to be a Wife and a Mother??? Listen Up...

Hi. I'm Professor Cos. Ladies, I am going to begin with a quick disclaimer. The information I'm about to share is good news for very few, and bad news for the vast majority of you. However, what most of you can do, is exercise your altruistic muscle and pass this information on to the few undamaged women who can use it to prevent themselves from becoming ugly, disgusting pieces of filth like you.

So before you delusional dingbats, before you clueless, solipsistic, definers of relationships, before you self proclaimed social and moral arbiters, before you brainwashed, women's magazine reading, pop culture consuming, daytime talk show watching, self help book buying suckers, before you terminally immature, mentally dysfuntional, personality disordered, neurotic knuckleheads with zero self awareness, before you ignorant, emotional retards who understand little to nothing about the male psyche, before you self entitled, inconsiderate piles of vacuous dead weight get too excited thinking that you're about to learn some "quick tips" and "tricks" on "how to attract" the kind man that wants to "settle down" and be in a "committed relationship", take a deep breath and settle down, bitch. The information that I'm about to give is not for women who are looking to get what they want out of a man or how to manipulate a man into commitment. And it's most certainly not for women who are under the impression that all they have to do to score a decent man is find out where these types of men "hang out" or wait for their future husband to just "come along"!

Jeez, I haven't even started yet and I'm already having too much fun making fun of you idiot cunts!

This information is for the most part, for the next, next, next, next generation of wives and mothers. You see, the current generation of women are an epic fail, a lost cause. They are however, a giant success story for the social programmers. Amen to that! Now their daughters, who already have daughters, can grow up to be like mother, like daughter, which means more single mothers, more welfare queens, more whores, more sluts, more cluster b syndrome cluster fucks who will get their vaginas used by guys who give zero fucks! In other words, more sperm receptacles, more sperm depositories, more human toilets! MAN, I AM SO LOOKING FORWARD TO THE FUTURE!!!

Now that I've taken out the trash, I can get to talking to the fortunate women who still have the chance to not only escape this depraved trap, but to rebuild the female image and run those harlots all the way out of town. Ladies, congratulations! It's time for the good news! Ladies, pay close attention! Ladies, no womanterrupting! This is your future we're talking about here!

The first thing you need to understand, is that sexual liberation dealt you a bad hand. Combine that with non religious men who don't need marriage to have sex, and you have an even bigger problem. You are a modern woman, welcome to your reality. You can choose to take advantage of that reality by spending your teens and 20's "playing the field" and getting free shit, in other words, benefiting from the reality that men just want to fuck you. Then you can spend your 30's looking for a man who wants more than sex while bitching about the kinds of men you benefited from who just want sex! And if you think that dumping your 30 year old ass on some guy who already has his shit together so that he can pay the price of commitment to a woman that other men got to have for free, you can go and join the long list of garbage women that I've just kicked to the curb.

Before I help you navigate through the tough situation that you're in, consider this... As soon as you sexually mature, you are confronted with a long line of men that just want to fuck you. Some of them think they want you, but it's just their bodies telling them to fuck you. Unless a guy learns about you prior to seeing your body, he's not really going to be interested in getting to know you. Well at least not before fucking you. At the point of seeing your body, dinner would already be on the table both literally and figuratively, and both his mouth and his dick will be watering. So don't bother torturing him with the boring conversation because he's not interested. He's hungry and he's horny, and anything that comes out of your mouth will go in one ear and out the other, and anything that comes out of his mouth will be said to get you within a closer proximity of his penis, ultimately resulting in vaginal penetration. If you think that your testing to see if a man wants you for more than sex or making him wait is a good idea, save yourself the trouble. You have no way of knowing whether a man wants you or just wants to fuck you. We are a sexually reproductive species and women are the fuck-ees. That reality precedes any type of modern dating ritual. Even the least primal person isn't going to want you before getting to know you, and non religious men don't abide by the rules against premarital sex.

The second thing you can do is spend your early years studying men from anything other than a solipsistic, emotional, fairy tale, prince charming, gentleman, "protector and provider", "real man" bullshit point of view. Also, get to know men who are unaware that you are noticing them, that way you can see them being their true selves. You will see and hear them doing and saying things that a typical woman who thinks she's a social and moral arbiter considers "gross" or "wrong" or any adjective used by a female to express her disapproval and display her ignorance for the masculinity that she considers "toxic". You will have the ability to distinguish between a decent guy and a guy that society tells you a decent guy should be. You will then learn how much work you need to do on yourself in order to be worth any amount of respect from the men you now understand that you once looked down your nose at.

Once you mature enough to be an adult female, not some indoctrinated princess who was raised in a culture that tells women that men owe them happiness, you will be able to invite the man you're interested in who is also looking to build a family to chat with you. It will be time for him to see if he likes your mindset and other personal attributes. Since you already know that you like him, you can let him know how much you understand him and other men in general, and you won't have to pound his head in with a bunch of questions about his future goals while he stares at your tits. Not only is that no way to talk to an adult, It's not smart, as you will be making it easier for guys to tell you what they think you want to hear. Oh, and dress down when you plan to meet him.

Lately I've been thinking that a wise, male relative is a good person to help a woman meet decent men, because let's face it, what the hell is some female dating coach or some stupid bitch who thinks she can screen out the bad apples really do? These broads are making bad decisions with men and dodging unwanted penises themselves. More proof that women need men in their lives!

Now that you know the amount of work you will be required to do just to become relationship material on top of the work it takes to find a decent guy for a long term relationship, there is another investment you will have to make, and that is a financial one. You will be contributing financially to this relationship. That means the place you will be living in, the expenses of raising children and everything else that requires money will be not be paid for by the "protector and provider" while you stay home cranking out kids and watching TV like a fat, useless bitch. Your purpose in life is not to be an anchor and chain around a man's ankle. Get off your motherfucking ass, and while you're at it, put some grown woman panties on them.

Men built and invented things so that you won't need men to be protectors and providers. You have national security, police officers, surveillance cameras, alarm systems, and hand held devices for protection, and you have capitalism to serve as your provider. Capitalism has produced the modern women that are starting to out earn the average working class male. Yet these same women want these same blue collar men who are the reasons why these same women live in the comfort they live in to earn more than them in order to be worth a second glance. And because these men don't make as much money as them, they bitch about being unable to find a man that's on their level. That's the inconsiderate, short sighted mindset of women that will tell any self respecting man everything he needs to know about how inconsiderate she will be in a relationship even if she finds a man who checks all these trivial, superficial boxes. People this selfish and inconsiderate won't be satisfied even if you give them the moon and stars.

Since you're going to have to be staying home until your youngest child is old enough to go to school, you need to find a way to make money. You're not going to be seeking a man who is already stable because you plan to have kids, and you're not going to be clogging up the workforce with your worthless, unreliable ass, just to quit or have emotional breakdowns because you want to spend more time with your kids. Work hard and invest in a small business or do something that allows you to stay at home or have your children with you. With the help and support of your partner, you can build a future together. Keep in mind that after all this is said and done, the law still holds the only the man accountable, and puts no responsibility on the woman for protecting and providing, which is why growing numbers of men are refusing to get married or have kids. Instead of wasting your time pelting mgtow with your ineffective shaming tactics, you might want to fight for your right to be treated by the law with equal relationship accountability like an adult instead of fighting for "equal rights" and "equal representation". The onus is on you to make that happen. No need for a fancy ending, get it?!

Shut up, no you didn't!
 
Hope you enjoyed it.
 
This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.
 
Bhaveen Sheth 

Sunday, December 3, 2017

Indian men who have been forced to give up on marriage

The single Indian man speaks on many Indian men who have been forced to give up on their dreams of getting married and remain single and celibate for their entire lives.


Forced bachelorhood is now becoming a common thing amongst many single Indian men who are very well in their 30's and 40's. Unlike those single Indian men who have remain single out of choice, these men dream and seriously want to get married but are not able to find any suitable women for marriage.



Blame it on the skewed male female or high expectations of women, these men stand out to lose a lot.

A big percentage of these men belong to middle class and lower middle class families , some may belong to an upper middle class family but still they retain middle class values.

These men are average in their achievements and generally get by in life. They hold basic educational qualifications and have a junior or middle level jobs in organizations. Their salaries can have needs fulfilled but cannot but them luxuries.These men are not independent and stay with their parents.

Every matrimonial alliances they come across have high expectations in terms of salaries, designation, materialistic expectations which these men can't meet. Rejections and disappointments happen repeatedly. This trend continues even when they have crossed into their 30's.

I don't look down on these men. Not everyone is an IIT-IIM professional or a doctor or engineer. Some people are average and they do have the right to exist and make a living. However with the matrimonial markets filled with extremely high demands, expectations and groom comparisons, these men don't stand a chance. It is not that all women are out of their league, many women are of a similar class, unfortunately they want to get married on the next higher level of the financial pyramid. There are innumerable amount of these middle class Indian women who will prefer staying single rather than getting married to men of a similar class.

After constant rejections these men and their families give up on any hope of getting married and stoically accept a single life with a lot of disappointment and disgust. There will a generation of men who were born in their 70's, 80's and even 90's who will have to accept a single life with dejections and rejections.

This is a reality, since no one mentions about this in the mainstream media, I chose to do the same.There is nothing that I can do, however I will be writing two additional posts giving my advice to these single Indian men and their parents and how they need to move and accept this single life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and I promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH-INDIAN MGTOW


How these feminist statements have ruined the lives of tens and thousands of Indian women-BHAVEEN SHETH DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

Bhaveen Sheth the writer of this blog writes a post on one of the brainwashing techniques used by feminists and feminazis in India through affirmations and statements on single urban Indian women. These statements have had terrible consequences on the lives of tens and thousands of Indian women leaving them single into their 30's and 40's:

"Koi accha ladka to milna chaihye" (I should be able to find the right guy), I will settle down only when I find the right person, I am still to come across with my Mr.Perfect.  These are nothing but feminist statements made to India's women in order to force them to keep finding the right guy (who does not exist) and keep on rejecting every decent man they come across.

What has this lead to? Well, it has lead to tens and thousands of Indian women being single now in their 30's and 40's with limited chances of finding a soul mate. They are now branded as left over women who hardly have any takers. Telling the truth, Indian women are not strong enough to live a single independent life on their own, of course there are exceptions but then I would go with the law of the majority. On one side you are made to grow up with the fact that you will get married, have a loving husband, lovely children, a family and happy family life and on the other side you are not able to get married because of the thinking you have picked up from these feminist statements. This leads to women who have a conflict within themselves. This makes them very toxic.

I am not a misogynist or a patriarch but if I have to put the general opinion of the Indian society, I state that the single Indian woman has marital value till she is 30, after that she is  considered as an off the shelf product. Marital prospects decline after she crosses 30.Feminist statements make these women think that they are god's own creation and they are entitled to have the best man but in reality a majority of these women have their own fundamental flaws and shortcomings that they tend to overlook. In the process of rejecting men and marital prospects that come along, these women cross their marriageable ages. And now they are well into their 30's and 40's , living a single life filled with unhappiness, despair and gloom resigned to a life of loneliness. They fail to realize that if they had kept moderate expectations, things would have worked our and by now they would have been happily settled down.

This is the bitter truth about feminism and women's liberation. This has ruined the lives of tens and thousand of single Indian women living urban cities of India.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth-INDIAN MGTOW

Friday, December 1, 2017

Words of wisdom to all single Indian male IT Professionals from Qoura-BHAVEEN SHETH-INDIAN MGTOW

The single Indian male was browsing through some popular write-ups on quora.He cam across an interesting write up on advice to a single Indian male IT professionals on what they need to do in order to improve their personalities and become better human beings. Please find the tips written below:


Mostly for Male Software Engineers.
  1. The girl who comes to your seat with twinkle in her eyes is not interested in you. She wants to get the fucking work done. And she will not date for your favour. She thinks you're a wussy. 
  2. Most of you my friends including me have a rubbish and sloppy communication and weirdo accent. Get some training dude.
  3. Your dressing sense sucks. Date a fashion designer if it is all possible for you. Date? Yes. Don't wear formal pants with sneakers or sports shoes. It's not cool.
  4. Take care of personal hygiene. No wonder girls run away from you. Use some good perfume and make sure you eat mint after consuming tons of onion during lunch or after smoking.
  5. Make sure your tummy doesn't entice me to say that you're pregnant without delivery(PWD). Take care of your health my friend. It's important.
  6. Become interesting. Get a life outside GOT, LOTR, and many more. Read something about evolution. Read books by Matt Ridley, Robert Greene and Neil Strauss.
  7. If you think the girl you discreetly look over your desktop doesn't notice you then I am telling you that she knows. She thinks you're a pervert. If you like her go and tell her. She thinks you lack balls to ask her out.
  8. Those with 1% lucky smart genes and good built but bad accent and poor self image, if you think girls in India will drool over you because it happens in some deodorant advertisements, then arse off. It's India. No one will come to you and that's why that talkative, confident, ugly and smart ass friend of yours is sleeping with all the girls. You need to talk to her buddy to create some interest.
  9. The Pizza you're eating during unsolicited late stays at your office is the biggest cause of your growing waistline. Cut the crap and carb. You're acting like a greedy pig here.
  10. Cut down your time in front of idiot box and laptops and start going to gym for god sake. Learn some moves so that you don't embarrass yourself in the upcoming annual party dance. Your weird dance has already repelled so many girls from you. Specially the snake dance of yours.
I hope my readers especially the single Indian men from the IT sector will follow and implement the points mentioned above.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Sunday, November 26, 2017

Confessions of an Emotionally abused Indian Husband-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

Bhaveen Sheth the writer of this blog "The Diary of a Single Indian male" shares a post from Quora on the condition of an emotionally abused married Indian man. Please read the post below:
I am 26 years old and I just got married to the girl I loved. Eight months into the marriage, I am depressed and on the verge of doing something disastrous but completely silent.
My wife has been an extremely spoilt child even by her own declarations. Every month, she spends a large chunk of the salary on stuff that we eventually throw out in a week or two. If I protest, she threatens to leave me or tells me that I am not a man for not being able to provide ‘basic’ amenities to her. Basic here includes dresses of brands I can’t pronounce and gift items and decorative stuff that we have little place in the house to keep.
I earn decently or that’s what I thought. Every single day, she asks me to do better at my job and earn more money. If I don’t earn more money, then what sort of a man am I? This is what she believes. She texts me constantly when I am working and asks me to come back home as early as possible. That affects work and in turn, the money. But if I have to stay back for longer hours and work harder, we get into fights that last for days. She threatens to kill herself.
She keeps posting feminism based messages on Facebook and is an avowed believer of equality. At home, she tells me that I should take care of the house and see how tough that is. Which is what I have been doing for three months now. I also do all her work at her workplace (she works in accounts and I find the time to do her balance sheets every day). She proudly proclaims to her friends that she works and takes care of the house all by herself, but I know better.
Since my mother is a heart-patient (my father passed away seven years ago), she has told me that ending this marriage will be her end. I must continue.
Every single day, we discuss about where she should go and shop, what she should wear, where I must take her to lighten her mood since the household work makes her miserable. If I express one opinion about where we should eat or what we should do, she tells me please think about me too. It’s not about you all the time. If I tell her that can I bring my mother to take care of her at least for a few days, she tells me ‘I don’t have time for useless people.’ Her family comes over and stays for days on end (which is a decent expense for me that makes things worse later on). If I protest, the threat is there and my mom is told about her son’s incapability. She believes it and reprimands me and asks me to work on myself.
I have stopped protesting, stopped speaking, stopped thinking. If I think and my face twitches, she tells me, ‘what was that? Why did you look at me like that? Are you doing me a favour by being nice to me? Do you know I could have married anybody…’ I sleep after her and wake up before her to prepare her first cup of coffee. I cook on most days since the last three months. ‘I will cook when I feel like. My father has always kept me like a queen. It’s time you did that too.’ I work constantly and barely get time to do anything else. At night, she tells me, ‘I think you are failing as a husband. I think you don’t realize how lucky you are. I hope you grow up and start valuing me.’ This is not a recent happening. I am writing about eight odd months here.
So what sucks about being a man? I cannot express my anger in this situation without being called a wuss. I tried exploring some legal options to end this charade but it won’t end well for me and with my mom undergoing her treatment, I won’t be able to afford it. I have told by my wife that I harass her or that I am like other men that rape women, if I don’t reach home within the time she specifies. She constantly complains about me to her friends, about how much of an idiot I am. She also discusses my sexuality with her friends and proudly tells me about it. Imagine if I did stuff like that? Yet, all that talk passes off as allowable coffee conversation. I can never claim that I cooked something or kept the house clean. No extra points for managing work and the house. But for her, that’s very commendable as she is a woman and has to battle inequality every day. For me, all this stuff must be easy as I am privileged.
I know feminism is a good thing and it is important to win the war for equal rights for women. It is very much the need of the hour. But my battle is lost. I will always smile and pretend things are ok, while I am dying inside.

This is the reality of many married Indian men, however a majority chose to suffer silently throughout their lives. I really feel sad about this person but there is nothing  that I can do. An important lesson learnt from this post is that before marriage every Indian man should thoroughly scrutinize the girl and put his expectations clearly before proceeding for matrimony.Should you ever encounter an over pampered spoilt princess in a prospective then drop it, just drop it from the start, you don't want end up with the life that this married man has shared above.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.