The Single Indian Man AKA Indian MGTOW buys his first Car-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The Single Indian Man would like to share with his fellow single Indian men and MGTOW friends that he has finally bought himself a car. Yes!!! This is my first car bought at the age of 36. I went for TATA NANO Advance version car 2017 model with power steering and power windows. No Car loan taken and no EMI's to be paid. This is an achievement for me. Please find the pictures below:

I am sharing this to inspire my fellow Indian Men who have decided to live a MGTOW lifestyle. There are wonderful benefits in living for yourself and going your own way.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

Feelings of the Single Indian man while watching sunset-Bhaveen Sheth -DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

As the sun sets down and the dusk takes over , you realize that just another lonely day is over.Just another day filled without love, care and affection.There is another lonely night that one has to endure. And still you look for another day, a day filled with hope, desire and expectations. Another day to look forward to make your life better.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

I told my friends, well wishers and colleagues to stop seeking any suitable matches for me. Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

I still don't understand why people get so sad when they hear that I am single and not married. For them it seems that an unmarried man is a sad lonely soul who needs some or the other form of companionship. Many advise that I should get married and settle down. They don't know my reality, do they? So I tell them who I really am and they get a shock of their life. Some feel sad and some get overtly  sympathetic. However they still feel that I should get married and I need a companion (as per them), hence they try to find a suitable match for me.

Over the years my friends and well wishers have tried but there has be no positive outcome. In a sort of a charged enthusiasm, my well wishers approach their contacts and spread the word about me. Sometimes they tend to forget what the opposite side is looking for. I appreciate their help and support but in life one needs to be grounded. Every normal family who wants to get their daughter married is looking for a stable man from a DECENT AND RESPECTABLE family.Now what happens when my profile gets shown to them? Majority will reject and a minority will take their chances. I get to feel like a commodity that is to be tried out by some reluctant customer. Over the years I have spoken and even met women and their parents referred by my friends and well wishers. Nothing worked out. The same story got repeated: The guy has no family, how do we trust him?

My friends and well wishers have also been criticized by the women's families whom they approached for me. They have been told that why did they refer me? Some have disclosed this to me, some have not. I know that they have faced embarrassment for referring my profile.

Eventually I have given up on marriage and have clearly told my friends, well wishers and colleagues to stop looking out for matrimonial alliances for me. It will save a lot of time and prevent trouble.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

INDIAN MGTOW

Words of wisdom for Indian women looking to get married-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The single Indian male came across a wonderful write up written by a fellow MGTOW on social media and would like to share the same with you:

 

So, You Want to be a Wife and a Mother??? Listen Up...

Hi. I'm Professor Cos. Ladies, I am going to begin with a quick disclaimer. The information I'm about to share is good news for very few, and bad news for the vast majority of you. However, what most of you can do, is exercise your altruistic muscle and pass this information on to the few undamaged women who can use it to prevent themselves from becoming ugly, disgusting pieces of filth like you.

So before you delusional dingbats, before you clueless, solipsistic, definers of relationships, before you self proclaimed social and moral arbiters, before you brainwashed, women's magazine reading, pop culture consuming, daytime talk show watching, self help book buying suckers, before you terminally immature, mentally dysfuntional, personality disordered, neurotic knuckleheads with zero self awareness, before you ignorant, emotional retards who understand little to nothing about the male psyche, before you self entitled, inconsiderate piles of vacuous dead weight get too excited thinking that you're about to learn some "quick tips" and "tricks" on "how to attract" the kind man that wants to "settle down" and be in a "committed relationship", take a deep breath and settle down, bitch. The information that I'm about to give is not for women who are looking to get what they want out of a man or how to manipulate a man into commitment. And it's most certainly not for women who are under the impression that all they have to do to score a decent man is find out where these types of men "hang out" or wait for their future husband to just "come along"!

Jeez, I haven't even started yet and I'm already having too much fun making fun of you idiot cunts!

This information is for the most part, for the next, next, next, next generation of wives and mothers. You see, the current generation of women are an epic fail, a lost cause. They are however, a giant success story for the social programmers. Amen to that! Now their daughters, who already have daughters, can grow up to be like mother, like daughter, which means more single mothers, more welfare queens, more whores, more sluts, more cluster b syndrome cluster fucks who will get their vaginas used by guys who give zero fucks! In other words, more sperm receptacles, more sperm depositories, more human toilets! MAN, I AM SO LOOKING FORWARD TO THE FUTURE!!!

Now that I've taken out the trash, I can get to talking to the fortunate women who still have the chance to not only escape this depraved trap, but to rebuild the female image and run those harlots all the way out of town. Ladies, congratulations! It's time for the good news! Ladies, pay close attention! Ladies, no womanterrupting! This is your future we're talking about here!

The first thing you need to understand, is that sexual liberation dealt you a bad hand. Combine that with non religious men who don't need marriage to have sex, and you have an even bigger problem. You are a modern woman, welcome to your reality. You can choose to take advantage of that reality by spending your teens and 20's "playing the field" and getting free shit, in other words, benefiting from the reality that men just want to fuck you. Then you can spend your 30's looking for a man who wants more than sex while bitching about the kinds of men you benefited from who just want sex! And if you think that dumping your 30 year old ass on some guy who already has his shit together so that he can pay the price of commitment to a woman that other men got to have for free, you can go and join the long list of garbage women that I've just kicked to the curb.

Before I help you navigate through the tough situation that you're in, consider this... As soon as you sexually mature, you are confronted with a long line of men that just want to fuck you. Some of them think they want you, but it's just their bodies telling them to fuck you. Unless a guy learns about you prior to seeing your body, he's not really going to be interested in getting to know you. Well at least not before fucking you. At the point of seeing your body, dinner would already be on the table both literally and figuratively, and both his mouth and his dick will be watering. So don't bother torturing him with the boring conversation because he's not interested. He's hungry and he's horny, and anything that comes out of your mouth will go in one ear and out the other, and anything that comes out of his mouth will be said to get you within a closer proximity of his penis, ultimately resulting in vaginal penetration. If you think that your testing to see if a man wants you for more than sex or making him wait is a good idea, save yourself the trouble. You have no way of knowing whether a man wants you or just wants to fuck you. We are a sexually reproductive species and women are the fuck-ees. That reality precedes any type of modern dating ritual. Even the least primal person isn't going to want you before getting to know you, and non religious men don't abide by the rules against premarital sex.

The second thing you can do is spend your early years studying men from anything other than a solipsistic, emotional, fairy tale, prince charming, gentleman, "protector and provider", "real man" bullshit point of view. Also, get to know men who are unaware that you are noticing them, that way you can see them being their true selves. You will see and hear them doing and saying things that a typical woman who thinks she's a social and moral arbiter considers "gross" or "wrong" or any adjective used by a female to express her disapproval and display her ignorance for the masculinity that she considers "toxic". You will have the ability to distinguish between a decent guy and a guy that society tells you a decent guy should be. You will then learn how much work you need to do on yourself in order to be worth any amount of respect from the men you now understand that you once looked down your nose at.

Once you mature enough to be an adult female, not some indoctrinated princess who was raised in a culture that tells women that men owe them happiness, you will be able to invite the man you're interested in who is also looking to build a family to chat with you. It will be time for him to see if he likes your mindset and other personal attributes. Since you already know that you like him, you can let him know how much you understand him and other men in general, and you won't have to pound his head in with a bunch of questions about his future goals while he stares at your tits. Not only is that no way to talk to an adult, It's not smart, as you will be making it easier for guys to tell you what they think you want to hear. Oh, and dress down when you plan to meet him.

Lately I've been thinking that a wise, male relative is a good person to help a woman meet decent men, because let's face it, what the hell is some female dating coach or some stupid bitch who thinks she can screen out the bad apples really do? These broads are making bad decisions with men and dodging unwanted penises themselves. More proof that women need men in their lives!

Now that you know the amount of work you will be required to do just to become relationship material on top of the work it takes to find a decent guy for a long term relationship, there is another investment you will have to make, and that is a financial one. You will be contributing financially to this relationship. That means the place you will be living in, the expenses of raising children and everything else that requires money will be not be paid for by the "protector and provider" while you stay home cranking out kids and watching TV like a fat, useless bitch. Your purpose in life is not to be an anchor and chain around a man's ankle. Get off your motherfucking ass, and while you're at it, put some grown woman panties on them.

Men built and invented things so that you won't need men to be protectors and providers. You have national security, police officers, surveillance cameras, alarm systems, and hand held devices for protection, and you have capitalism to serve as your provider. Capitalism has produced the modern women that are starting to out earn the average working class male. Yet these same women want these same blue collar men who are the reasons why these same women live in the comfort they live in to earn more than them in order to be worth a second glance. And because these men don't make as much money as them, they bitch about being unable to find a man that's on their level. That's the inconsiderate, short sighted mindset of women that will tell any self respecting man everything he needs to know about how inconsiderate she will be in a relationship even if she finds a man who checks all these trivial, superficial boxes. People this selfish and inconsiderate won't be satisfied even if you give them the moon and stars.

Since you're going to have to be staying home until your youngest child is old enough to go to school, you need to find a way to make money. You're not going to be seeking a man who is already stable because you plan to have kids, and you're not going to be clogging up the workforce with your worthless, unreliable ass, just to quit or have emotional breakdowns because you want to spend more time with your kids. Work hard and invest in a small business or do something that allows you to stay at home or have your children with you. With the help and support of your partner, you can build a future together. Keep in mind that after all this is said and done, the law still holds the only the man accountable, and puts no responsibility on the woman for protecting and providing, which is why growing numbers of men are refusing to get married or have kids. Instead of wasting your time pelting mgtow with your ineffective shaming tactics, you might want to fight for your right to be treated by the law with equal relationship accountability like an adult instead of fighting for "equal rights" and "equal representation". The onus is on you to make that happen. No need for a fancy ending, get it?!

Shut up, no you didn't!

 

Hope you enjoyed it.

 

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

 

Bhaveen Sheth 

Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIMThe high standards of today's modern educated, overdemanding Indian women

Bhaveen Sheth, the writer of this post  writes on the sky high expectations that today's modern Indian women have from a marriage. Due to such high expectations they reject each and every potential alliance. Later they find it difficult to get married and end up living a miserable single life. 

Now a days it is quite normal to read and hear on a number of modern educated urban Indian women who are still single in their 30's and 40's.

While staunch feminists are applauding this growing population of single Indian women, there are many who have stated that such a trend will have  disastrous consequences on women.

So why are many educated working urban Indian women remaining single? The answer  that they state is that they have still not come across the right person. "I am still waiting to find Mr.Perfect:."There are no decent single guys available"."I will not compromise on my standards and marry below my level."

Right guy, perfect guy and high standards. Ohhh man!!!!

I don't know what these women mean when they mention the above written words. At present many women are confused. They are not able to decide. Many still go by the face value or the financial status of the person.

Expectations are all the same. The dream guy should have it all, wealth of Bill Gates, body of Hritik Roshan and charms of Shah Rukh Khan.

And then I would like to ask these women one question, just one question.Are you perfect? I mean, seriously, are you perfect??Just look at yourself in the mirror. For starters look at yourself. No, I will not comment on your physique  because if I do so , I may incur the wrath of the feminists. Do you have that figurine hour glass body? Are you lean? Are you picture perfect? No, you are not!!.

Many such women having high standards are average, just average:average in everything. They have an average intellect, they hold average jobs, they have no major accomplishments. They come from an average family background, the ubiquitous middle class family. But the expectations of these women are sky high. They live in a world of fantasy and think that one Mr.Charming/Mr.Perfect is waiting for them out there in some part of the world.

These women are not getting younger as the days go by. Year after year their chances of getting married are diminishing. The only thing that remains static is their sky high expectations. At present they are in the prime of their youth and think that men in their early and mid 30's are too old for them.They love rejecting potential suitors. For them face value, professional qualifications and remuneration of men are parameters decided when considering someone as their future husbands. Every potential groom is rejected by these women.They get some sort of pleasure in humiliating and taunting potential suitors. Many such women want to convey a message to their parents on their sky high high expectations by rejecting potential suitors.

Frankly speaking, these suitors are not bad. They come from decent families, hold good qualifications and have respectable and well paying jobs. They are the real Indian men, men who are not superficial, men who are real marriage material and qualify to become good husbands and fathers. But just because these good men don't match up to the sky high expectations of these women, they get rejected. Nothing happens to them, they eventually find good women, get happily married and start a family.

But what about our women with sky high expectations??

To tell the caustic and acerbic truth, these women end up being single for the rest of their lives. They cross their 20's and enter into their 30's. They become the leftover women, an of the shelf product, something that has now gone beyond its expiry date. They are no longer sought after in the matrimonial market.This is one harsh reality about the Indian society. No matter how modern and educated we the people of India become;we remain traditional and conservative at the core level. A woman past 30 is not considered desirable. Matrimonial alliances now become hard to come by. The one who used to reject has now become the rejected.Even some alliances that came through family relations have now stopped coming.Now they get alliances from the rejected and dejected men, you know the kind of guys that no one wants to marry, divorcees, widowers, single fathers, physically disabled, fat, obese and what not.

Year after year desperation and frustration rises amongst such women but there is no solution. Peers and colleagues of these women are now happily married and have children of their own.For these single women, a solo life becomes extremely difficult. Feelings of dejection and depression set in. It is now that they realize that they were wrong and wrong indeed.It is now that they look back retrospectively and realize that the men they rejected would have become good husbands and caring fathers of their children, had they married them. But now that time has gone. At present there are just a few suitable and many unsuitable men men available for them, but these women still won't marry because of their sky high expectations that have never changed over the years.

As I conclude the post, I describe the present lives of these women and how it looks. For women who are now in their 20's having high expectations, I request that they should carefully read the following paragraph as it reveals the trials and tribulations of living a single life in India.

The scenario is something like this. There is this single depressed Indian woman, now in her late 30's or early 40's living a miserable life.Her parents have aged and are now worried about  who will take care of their daughter after they die. Her brothers and sisters are now married and happily settled. They have gradually distanced themselves from her. No one invites her to any social function or occasion.Men of all kinds try to hit on her thinking that she is an easy available sex object.She craves and yearns for emotional support but she gets none.Her physical needs and wants remain unfulfilled. She has now become an outcast in her own society, amongst her own people.She returns to an empty house and has her lunch and dinner alone. There are times when she falls sick and there is no one by her side.There are times when she wants speak with someone but there is no one to listen to her. Festivals and birthdays have now stopped being of any importance to her. She has no one forward to look for, nothing to live for. Life has now become a mundane and boring existence.

This is the fate of many such single Indian women who have standards/expectations from marriage.This is the price they eventually pay.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing out for the and will be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

On being a pragmatist and not cynical-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM

Being single in India has its own challenges. My single status is a question mark to a lot of people.

One of the reasons for being single is the unwillingness to take unwanted responsibilities and the existing anti-male laws in the judicial system of this country. Whenever I speak my mind on these topics or express my opinion, I get labelled as a cynic, negative  and   depressed person.That does not mean that marriage is a bad institution. Getting married is good, but if a person is not willing to get married, he is labelled as a cynic.

There are many Indian men for whom marriage has turned into a disaster. These men still have bitter memories of their failed marriages and they carry a lot of emotional baggage. Other men had failed relationships, some men come from dysfunctional families, the primary institution of marriage failed them.The bond of holy matrimony failed them.So they decided not to get married. I don't think that they are cynical.

I have clearly stated my case. Being an orphan makes me an outcast and vulnerable.The first thing is that I have found no takers. Secondly, I am well aware of the fact that there are manipulative female opportunists out there who want to get married to me because they have equally found no takers. These women have parents who play the sympathy card to get their daughters married. No just imagine, I have no one to help me in my difficult times:what would happen if I was charged under all those false feminist anti-male laws? Who will help me? I cannot live a life controlled by a woman who is emotionally abusing me 24*7.

Single hood has given me an opportunity to live life on my own terms. In my early 30's, I often see my peers who are living a mundane life.The ubiquitous albatross of home loans and EMI is hanging on their necks along with the Damocles sword of loosing a job.Many have resigned to their fates and are living a mediocre life. They get up , go to work, pay their bills, go home, eat food, watch TV and sleep.When I compare my life with them, I find myself better off. Single life has give me the freedom to do what I want.

No one is right and no one is wrong. Everyone has a different view or perception about a particular situation. A pragmatist always looks at both sides before he/she makes a decision. I have done the same thing and there is nothing wrong with the decision that I have taken.

To all the single Indian men out there,please note that if you are single because of your own choice then you are not a cynic. You are single because you are a pragmatist, so please don't fee sad about it.

The probem with our Indian society is that anyone who does not conform to it norms, rules and regulations is dubbed as a cynic.

This Bhaveen Sheth singing out and will be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth