Tuesday, May 8, 2012

The Disturbed and the Distressed People who form a Major Part of the Indian Society.

Time and again in my observations of the Indian Society, now at a very close angle and my experience with its people has confirmed one point, that it is indeed a society of contradictions filled with hypocrisy and double standards.

Call me a vitriolic critic or a fanatic Non Conformist, i choose to take a stand and put my point. There is something that is terribly wrong with the people of Indian Society, which is now gradually on a Dysfunctional Route.

Accepting the reality has been very difficult for the Indian People. They shun it and even walk away from it. 

 For people living their life in the world of a Heavenly Utopia and make believe situations, for people who living in  self delusion, reality and pragmatism can never find a place either in their hearts or their minds.

And with this you find people who become disillusioned and disappointed, gradually there is a ripple effect seen all over the Society rendering it on a state of Dysfunction.

Some of the People or types of People whom I have come across have been mentioned below:

People suffering from some sort of inferiority complex!!!! And those are a plenty, inferiority complex because of their looks, height, complex, physique, and intellect etc........ the list goes on and on, it never ends. A look on their face and it is evident that the person is a victim of Inferiority complex.

Couples trapped in wrong marriages, be it the husband or the wife. A victim of the arranged marriage system (sometimes it can be a wrong love marriage), the relationship has now reached a stalement, there is no communication among the husband and wife, yet lives are being led.

The Divorced/Separated woman. Oh Dear!!!! Given the fact that they are still considered as the outcasts of the Indian Society, but is it necessary to become self victimized????? These women are bitter of all relations and good things in life. Frustrations mount day by day making them mentally sick.

The divorced husband, another person who will never accept that he was ever at fault, constantly blaming his spouse for everything that happened. Once a divorce has happened the poor desperate man is on a lookout for the next life partner, as if woman were available as easily as burgers are available in McDonalds. Filled with despair, this is another depressed man one comes across.

The Traditional Elders- You will find them everywhere, in your house, in your society, in your neighbourhood, in the parks, in social functions and god knows where. These people have never learnt to adapt to the changing times and ways of the society, they look upon youngsters with disgust, criticizing the present times. These people think that just because they have the years of experience, they can do moral policing and advice giving; their remarks at times can be so hurtful that it can drive the listener insane.

The Bored and good for nothing Housewives errrr Homemakers: Another category which forms the list. Yes, being a home maker is a challenge and no easy task. But does that mean that they should stay ignorant of the changing dynamics of the outside world. With nor productive work to do , many of them watch useless soaps and turn gossip queens. Who is going where, who is working, who is having an affair, who is going to get married................ and more..................... They have so much information about the neighbourhood that even the local police or intelligence services will not have.
 
Over Ambitious Parents- Another clan one gets to see, having never lived their lives, they tend to live their lives through their children, pushing them to extreme ends, be it studies of extracurricular activities. These are the people who compare their children with others and try to put the parents of other children down, just to derive some sort of wicked satisfaction, not realizing that they are themselves jeopardizing the lives of their children.

The Frustrated Young Man- This is a species of its own kind and will continue to grow over the years. Youngsters anywhere between 20 to 35, these men are mentally, physically ,psychologically, socially and well hmmmmmmm sexually depressed. REASON!!!!!! Plenty, some don’ enjoy their work, some their work environment, some have been terrible professional failures, some had disastrous personal failures, some are sexually frustrated because they have not lost their virginity ( no one can help you if you are a looser), some are not getting married ( Girls have openly started rejecting guys even if they are from IIT’s or IIM’s, you can imagine how much can that hurt a male ego) and the rest of them have never learnt to live and enjoy their lives, so they are here on this list.

The Frustrated Young Woman- This species is smaller in number but is does exist, and many of they have pretty much the same problem what the frustrated young men have the common problem that singularly unites this group is: they are not getting married. Why?????? Seriously, I don’t know. Sometimes something just don’t click. However the Indian Society is not lenient with woman who have crossed the fertile marriageable age set by it for girls .They are subjected to all types of sweet criticisms and comments. Making appearance at any social function becomes difficult for them. So I hope you understand their condition.

The Sexually Frustrated Man/Woman- They are plenty in number and all suffer from one problem, they have weakness in between their thighs, their carnal desires can never be satiated, their thirst for sex is the same as the thirst of a Bedouin wandering in a hot desert. No wonder they are caught with their pant or whatever (referring the clothes which woman were) down. It can be in the office, car, and bathroom or on the video tape. The present cases of politicians tapes of sex and sleaze caught on camera is a proof of it. I can’t say why this problem exists??But lack of sexual satisfaction is a precursor of it. I know of a man who was on an extreme end of sexual frustration, when probed deeper into his married life, i realized that he had problems with his wife and his wife denied him sex a  form of punishment, every other word coming out of his mouth was sex and F!@#!!!!

The list is endless and there are more to be added based on my future experiences and interactions with people.

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