The INDIAN MGTOW turns 37-Bhaveen Sheth-DTOSIM

This month on 13th of May , the Indian MGTOW turned 37. On my birthday I look back every year and think on the knowledge, skills and wisdom that I have gained in the years gone by.

I did celebrate my 37th birthday by taking 2 days off.  In 2016 and 2017, I had gone to Goa and Gokarna to celebrate my birthday. However for the last 2 years I have chosen to stay at home and spend some quality time in solitude.

Every Indian MGTOW has the right to celebrate his birthday. Being alone does not mean we forget important events related to our lives. We need to take out time and enjoy.

I have come to realize that MGTOW lifestyle is wonderful and am happy to have made a decision to go MGTOW. At 37 , I am far more happy than the married Indian men whom I come across. There are no financial responsibilities and no stress related to spouse and children.

MGTOW lifestyle has its own advantages and plus points that our Indian society will never understand. Of course I am labelled as a selfish, self serving and self occupied person. I often get criticized by these so called happily married men for enjoying life all by myself. I don't care. I never take the opinion of married Indian men seriously. In today's times marriage is nothing but a sham, a fake show put up by people to comply by the rules of the society. We all know that marriage for all its positive points has become dysfunctional. But then fools cannot understand logic and I am not here to give an explanation.

There is a wonderful phrase, Every man for himself. To each one his own. This is what I believe in. Focus on yourself .

Many of my fellow INDIAN MGTOW's will be under pressure from their families as they are still not married. Hey Guys!!! Just chill. You have a perfect life. be happy. And if you want an inspiration, just look at me, 37 and still not married, living a MGTOW life. I have no regrets on the decision I took.

At 37 I still have dreams and ambitions. I dream of becoming a biker and travelling across India on a wonderful motorcycle.

Here I am at 37 wishing all my fellow single Indian men and MGTOWs all the very best. Follow your dreams and live your life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

The Single Indian Man AKA Indian MGTOW buys his first Car-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The Single Indian Man would like to share with his fellow single Indian men and MGTOW friends that he has finally bought himself a car. Yes!!! This is my first car bought at the age of 36. I went for TATA NANO Advance version car 2017 model with power steering and power windows. No Car loan taken and no EMI's to be paid. This is an achievement for me. Please find the pictures below:

I am sharing this to inspire my fellow Indian Men who have decided to live a MGTOW lifestyle. There are wonderful benefits in living for yourself and going your own way.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

When I don't feel sorry for myself then why do you feel sorry for me?

Speaking as a first person the single Indian man would like to address all those people who feel sorry for him due to his condition.

You see me as an individual, as a single man who is still not married, you come to know that I am an adult orphans and don't have anyone.Suddenly you are overwhelmed with emotions of sympathy and you start feeling sorry for me.Why?Do I look like someone who wants sympathy?

I am living life on my own terms and happy with my current status quo. I don't pity myself  then why do you?

Being single is not a disease.Some are programmed to live alone.Over the course of the years I have become comfortable with my single status and don't feel the need to get married.

You are married and have a family, I wish you all the best and I hope that you focus on your life.I will find a way to take care of myself so please don't show any concern for me.

I live in the present and am very optimistic about my future.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

INDIAN MGTOW

The Death of a Single lonely Indian Man-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM-INDIAN MGTOW

The single Indian man would like to write about an event he witnessed two years ago on the death of  a single lonely Indian man in the same building that he resides in.

I had seen this man, he was in his early 50's,single, lonely and battling mid life crisis.Like all people who come from small towns to big cities seeking better employment opportunities, he too belonged to the same category. From what I came to know about him, he was a teaching faculty in one of those coaching classes for MBA CAT and MAT.

He seemed to be aloof.He was unmarried,kept up to himself hardly interacting  with people.There were a few times when I saw him speaking with the building caretaker. He seemed to be overtly expressive, talking a lot. It seemed that he had no one to talk to.A classic syndrome of prolonged loneliness.When you get an opportunity to talk , you keep talking non stop.

In his physical appearance he seemed to have aged 10 -15 years more that his current age.He looked shabby and did not care much about his appearance.His clothes were loose, he hardly shaved and looked more like a hippy.I guess he had stopped taking care of himself.

Loneliness did not kill him. It were the vices associated with loneliness that did..His drinking habit took away his life.I guess he used to consume alcohol on  daily basis beyond the permissible limits (as per medical sciences). He looked wasted. I guess alcohol had already taken a huge toll on his health. Till date I do not why did he find his solace in alcohol. What was it? A broken marriage, betrayal in love, a dysfunctional family or a difficult childhood.Some people take their secrets to their graveyards without sharing with anyone.

No one knows when this lonely man died. He did not come out of his room for three days.A foul smell started coming from his room.His door was forced open and he was found lying lifeless like a wasted cadaver.The police was promptly informed. His sister and brother in law were called and all formalities related to his death were processed.There was no mourning, there was no funeral.Considering the difficulty in taking the dead body to his home town, his last rites were done in a nearby place.

This is how the life of a single lonely man came to an end.It is true that all of us are going to die one day but no one deserves a death like this. No one deserves to die like a street mongrel or a sewer rodent.Such kind of a death is humiliating to the human soul.

We as Single Indian men must learn from this. We should never fall for evil vices.Be it alcohol or anything.Never neglect your health and well being. Go outside and connect with people.Develop creative hobbies and start engaging in them.Work hard to create a meaningful life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

The rise in the population of India's ineligible bachelors and leftover men

While our society has shown a growing concern on Indian women not getting married after a certain age and more and more women remaining single, no one has tried to shed  light on the sudden and steep rise in the numbers of ineligible unmarried Indian men or better known as leftover men/bare branches.

These are men who have failed to get married for reasons obviously known to them, Demographically these men are found in huge numbers in the Northern part of India where decades of selective sex determination tests have led to female infanticide and abortions. Now these regions are facing a grave shortage of women.This is just one reason why we see so many unmarried Indian men.The other reason is the high standards, expectations and demands of Indian women when it comes to marriage.Time and again I have stated that Indian women marry higher up in the socio economic ladder. They prefer men who have better jobs earning a good salary package.Some men have not been as successful on the job and career front, some men are stuck in a dead end job with no further growth. These are the men who get rejected in the matrimonial market.

And then there are men belonging to a second category. These men hold good jobs and earn a decent salary. Unfortunately they come with their own fundamental flaws or personal in-competencies. These are men who are physically abnormal (too dark, short, obsese, short and scrawny), men who have poor social skills, they can't initiate a conversation with an unknown woman, men who lack self-esteem and self confidence which is noticeable from the body language.

So here you have a rising population of ineligible single Indian men, something that the Indian government should notice.This population is made up of disheartened and depressed men.Some of these men have hateful feelings towards the married Indian population.Being a left over Indian man deals a big blow one's ego especially for the men from North India.I also want to mention that these men are prone to indulge in bad habits like alcohol, drugs and women.Those days are not far when i will see these Indian men wasting their lives and careers because of their addiction to such vices.

Indian men have never been conditioned to live a solo life. They can"t accept the fact that they have to move on and go solo even after countless rejections from prospective brides.Indian society has indoctrinated its men in the philosophy that marriage is the be all and end all of life.Men are not able to come in terms with their solo status.

India and Indian society needs to make efforts in order to accommodate this population of ineligible bachelors.For starters the Indian society should stop taunting and making fun of  these single Indian men. There is no point in making fun of a person who is not married just because you are happily married and have a family does not mean that everyone should follow the bandwagon. People should learn to practice empathy towards single Indian men.Single Indian men are human beings. Stop treating them as some kind of an infected animal who needs to be quarantined. Learn to accommodate them on the social front. Let them live their lives the way they want.

The government also needs to pitch in be giving support to these men.Start helplines/hire counselors to deal with the problems of single men.Give incentives to builders to make studio apartments.

Concluding this post I state that in the coming years the population os single Indian men will rise and efforts need to be put in to accommodate them.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.